Nipple Biting

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Registered: 01-12-2007
Nipple Biting
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Fri, 01-12-2007 - 7:43pm
I am wondering if anyone else has encountered this problem:
The guy I have been seeing is really rough with my breasts and nipples and bites and tweaks them. It really turns me on, but my nipples are so sore afterward that I can't stand any more stimulation on them, and they hurt for days sometimes. I know if I mention something to him, he'll feel bad and not get as into it in the future. Why doesn't he realize he is going too far with this and that it's painful?
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 11:23pm

He doesn't realize he's hurting you because you're afraid to tell him. Hon, it's YOUR body, and anytime a man does something that you don't like, or it hurts you, then you TELL him.

Either that, or endure the pain. You can be sure if you were hurting his penis, you'd hear about it in two seconds! If he's a decent guy, he'll feel bad that he hurt you, and he would WANT to know about it.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 01-13-2007 - 10:16am

As Sakura said, he doesn't realize it because you're not telling him.


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Registered: 01-13-2007
Sat, 01-13-2007 - 1:46pm
My boyfriend is a bit rough as well. I've talked to him about it and asked him to ease up a bit. I told him I enjoy it, but that he just gets a bit too rough sometimes.
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Registered: 01-12-2007
Mon, 01-15-2007 - 12:09am
You guys are right, I guess I'll have to tell him...
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Mon, 01-15-2007 - 5:09am
I am having a BIT of an issue with this actually.