Nipple sensitivity issue
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Nipple sensitivity issue
| Thu, 06-30-2005 - 5:44am |
Hi, Firstly I love this message board with all the great advise from you ladies. My partner & I have some great times in the bedroom & other places but just recently a topic came up about nipple/breast sensitivity (due to talking about ex lovers). The orgasmic nipple has never really been a big deal sexually for me but it has just started me thinking that I am missing out on something & so is he. I love the way he makes me feel below the belt & because of this I guess I have disregarded other areas. I don't think I have much sensitivity in the nipple area although I enjoy him playing with them but I hope to experience more. I am feeling a little inadequete now but I think this may be due to me not really liking my breasts. I'm around a C cup & my boyfriend has told me before about a past girl with large breasts ( that was another issue that has made me feel uncomfortable) & how she was not sensitive there & then a girl who was flat chested but she could orgasm from this. I know he was trying to help. Do any of you ladies know of any good oils/creams that will make the nipple/breast area sensitive & that works? It's not a huge deal for me but I just want to give my best to him & to me. Also I'm only 33 years of age but the past year have been going through hormonal changes (not menopause) but just lack of libido/depression with hormone fluctuations for our age group. I need some advise on herbal tablets which I will post in a forthcoming message. Thanks for all your help.

I have to ask why would your b/f discuss his sexual details with past partners he has had?
I agree with Tish. You can't "make" your nipples sensitive, if they're not. You can enjoy it "emotionally".....but if the physical sensation isn't there, then it's not there.
As for "orgasmic" nipples, that's a stretch! Every woman is different....some have very sensitive ears.....men like to compare this stuff, and that's so stupid. What one woman enjoys, the next woman might absolutely HATE. Someone told my ex about "ears", and I had to tolerate him slobbering all over my ears, till I finally told him to STOP, or else, lol
I also agree with Tish about your b/f's information about past partners. Some people can handle it, but most, like you, become insecure if they feel they don't "measure up". The best part about that is the fact that for all he knows, these women MIGHT have been faking it......because many women do (STUPID), and guys really can't tell the difference. Just think about it......if they were so great, he'd still be with them, not you! If you DID have sensitive nipples, that's not enough to make a relationship last, obviously! Tell him you don't want to hear about what other women were like.
If you have hormonal problems, there are better ways of dealing with it than "herbal" remedies. As Tish said, just because they're "natural" doesn't mean they're safe, or even good for you. Doctors hesistate to prescribe estrogen these days, because of the possible long term side effects, although not everyone has a problem with them. I was on HRT for many years, and never had a problem. Even birth control pills are estrogen, and no one hesitates to take them. In fact, have you discussed taking them with the doctor? They will regulate your hormones, as well as prevent pregnancy. Lots of herbal remedies contain Black Cohosh which is a "plant" derivative of estrogen.....and can have the SAME long term effects......so if you're going to take estrogen, better to take a prescription, which is approved by the FDA, and has regulated doses, which you can't be sure of in herbals.
Ginko Biloba is another dangerous one.....it's a blood thinner. It's promoted to increase memory.......which it might because it increases the blood flow to the brain, but it can interact with other legitimate medications, and be very dangerous.
Discuss ANY herbal remedies with your doctor before you take them, and do a web search on them, which can provide VERY interesting information that the manufacturers will NOT provide.
Don't worry about your nipples.....as long as they're healthy.....that's all you need to be concerned about.