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| Fri, 04-11-2008 - 10:32am |
my man can last about 20 min. before he lost his control. sometimes longer. In front of his ex he said he can't last so long. because she can control her muscle down there. cooperate with her hip's movement she can make him cum within 2 min. if it is true, It is great for the woman had this power on bed. but I have no idea what he said is true or not.

Men control themselves.
Having toned PC muscles and using them does enhance the sexual experience of both you and your partner, but mostly your own. Know when to move together is something else that can add to the event. In that respect, it's showing enthusiasm for what you're doing, and keeping you involved as an active participant too.
As far as when he will or won't have an orgasm, it's really more up to him and what he does with the activities, perhaps better to say how he processes the activities. They might play into his fantasies, or past events, which might trigger him to reach orgasm quicker, but it's not solely the cause of him having an orgasm.
Here's a thread from a while back that discusses how to tone the PC muscles:
Here's a way toTune Up an Untoned Vagina
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlletstalkab/?msg=20532.1
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