No Rhythm!!
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| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 3:01am |
I have been with other men and don't want to sound cocky but I have been told that I am good in bed. Also, you just kind of know when you are doing something well.
I have always enjoyed being on top. I ALWAYS have an orgasm. and have NEVER had a problem.
I have been with my current boyfriend for just over a year. Sexually he is the best I have ever had and for the first time, I have at least one orgasm every time we have sex.
The problem is that while I am still fine in any other position, as soon as I attempt to go on top or "ride" him, I completely lose all coordination and rhythym. I am not imagining things because each time we have tried, he has quickly switched to another position.
Has this happened to anyone or does any have any advice for fixing it?
Jenny

Are you more self conscious in this position with this partner? Are you preoccupied with what he's thinking or feeling so you aren't concentrating on your experience?
Maybe you should try it only in the dark, if you aren't already, so that you can concentrate on what makes YOU feel good and not have the distraction of his eyes on you, etc.
And btw, don't judge your performance on HIS reaction to it. He may just not like woman on top...with any partner. IF it gets YOU to orgasm, then you did it successfully. You can always switch to his favorite so that he can finish.