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no sex and the city
| Wed, 08-30-2006 - 10:13am |
here lately my husband hasnt really had the desire to have sex with me.at first i thought hey maybe he is just stressed out from work or something but when i get on the compuer i seee that he has looked @ porn and it makes me feel insecure.i dont mind him looking at it b/c use to we both watch it together then go have sex.i know that he isnt cheating on me b/c he goes to work and comes home,so i dont know what the deal is.usually i'm like the man in the relationship (where i want it the most)but here lately i've been waiting to see if he makes a move and he hasnt..so what do you think i should do??
thanks!

Nothing has changed since your other posts. You two have serious problems, and you need to do something about the problems OUT of the bedroom! Problems in the bedroom are usually a reflection of the REAL problems in a marriage. You have financial problems, you have communication problems, and you're ignoring them.
You two are very young, and you have no idea how to communicate with each other. THAT is what you need to work on! If you can't do it on your own, then seek out some kind of counselling. If you get the marriage on the right track, then the sexual problems will solve themselves.
The same thing that has been suggested you do with your other posts, get marriage counseling.