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is this normal?
| Sat, 05-26-2007 - 8:51pm |
my husband last night just asked me to perform anal sex on him? This freaked me out a little (but understood, because he told me a long time ago he was molested as a child) but this still makes me unconfortable how do I tell him or is this normal for men to want this I don't know what to do? I love him very much and I know he loves me but still I dont know? Please help!

and i think it may have nothing to do with his past,,may be he want to try somthing new..
if it pleases him go forward.....
Welcome to the board cntrygrl29.
It's actually more common than you might think for guys to fantasize about anal penetration. The anus has a lot of sensitivity, and many sex toys are made for use during anal play -- for both men and women.
I doubt it has anything to do with his childhood. Would you be willing to visit an adult store or internet adult site to learn more about the type of anal play he is interested in?
Here are a couple of articles you might find helpful:
How Do I Give my Guy Anal Pleasure?
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/questions/give-anal-pleasure
5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,jdgc,00.html
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