Is This Normal??? Can Women Do This???

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Is This Normal??? Can Women Do This???
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Fri, 05-28-2004 - 3:08pm
My BF has this vibrating back massager that he uses on me during sex. This thing is awesome. I usually have to make him stop becuase it feels to good. He keeps telling me to just go with it and let him show me what the "ultimate pleasure" is. I "borrowed" it from his house and have been using it on my own. I wanted to practice to try and keep from pushing away when it feels to good. (ok, and I just love the thing) The other night while I was using it, I made myself keep it where it was when it was starting to feel to good. I was there, eyes watering with tears running down my cheeks, it was starting burn (not in a bad way, but a good way) all the way down to my right foot. It was amazing, then it happened. I knew I was really wet (the thing usually dries me out no matter how good it feels) then I "gushed". It was like my water breaking. I thought I had peed on myself. It felt so good though, better than I have ever have.

The next day I was curious as to if I had infact peed, or what it was. (I know this sounds gross) I smelled my sheets and the sleeper shirt I had been wearing, and it was not urine. My question is, what was this???

I am 28 years old, was married for 10 years and have been with my BF for a year. I am not new to sex, but I have never experianced anything like that before. Is this normal??? What was it???

Thank you.

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Sun, 05-30-2004 - 4:20am
If you need a refractory period of an hour then that isn't true multiples I'm afraid. A true multiple happens within a very short space of time with little or no refractory period.
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Registered: 05-24-2004
Sun, 05-30-2004 - 9:45pm
It is called female ejaculation!!!!

By the way Hi my name is cyndi!!!
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Registered: 12-29-2003
Mon, 05-31-2004 - 5:10pm
Starduster is a man who needs a refractory period after an ejaculation. As one earlier poster said, men can have true multiples without ejaculation if they master the technique. I usually have three, like you said, about 1-2 minutes apart. I can do this up to three times a day, and I'm 52. My DF is very multi-orgasmic and she can have them one right after another with no problem.

taoist
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 06-01-2004 - 1:06pm
I have been trying to do it again, but have not been able to. (Maybe I should get a hobby LOL) I haven't even told him yet. I am scared that he will think he is not doing something right. I did it by accident, but would LOVE to know how and do it again...and again...and again... LOL

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Registered: 07-14-2003
Wed, 06-02-2004 - 9:07pm
Hon:

Your probably conditioned to not ejaculate. I had to get a lot of reassurance that I was not just wetting the bed. At my age I was fairly easily convinced that I had lost control or whatever. The truth is that there are plenty of doctors and such that assure us that this is not "pee" and that it's also fairly normal. Not that long ago it was common. We got "uptight" and apparently learned to hold it in (for the most part) At least that's my theory.

Keep it your secret until your ready to "enroll" you SO in helping you. Solo experimentation is probably the best course of action and practice makes perfect I say! If it's not too "weird" you might consider buying a G-Spot vibe or Dildo. I was frankly a little suprised that you were able to do it without internal stimulation of your SO's fingers or a "toy" Oh, and get a book on the subject. It might help you to make it a regular part of your sex life.

Guys by the way have a special spot of their own as well. Depending on how open minded he is (And other parts) you might study up on that as well ;-)

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