Is this normal for guys to like?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2008
Is this normal for guys to like?
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Mon, 09-22-2008 - 12:13pm
Hi, I am new here. I was wondering if you could help me out. First to let you all know I am bi. My husband loves the idea of me being with another woman. I have only done it once. He really enjoyed hearing about it. I know he would love to watch some time. (It will be awhile before I'm ready again.) He also begged me to let him watch me with another man. I did it for him (well sort of. The other man had some issues. lol). I really did not want to do it but wanted to make DH happy.(Also same with the other woman. I only want/need DH) Anyways, is that normal for a guy to like sharing his wife? I would never in a million years share him.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Tue, 09-30-2008 - 8:07pm

Every person, man AND woman, has different likes and dislikes when it comes to sex. Some women want open relationships, some men want to be cuckolded, it just depends on the person. While it is not "common" for most men to want to share their wives (at least as far as we know), it most certainly is not abnormal. In fact, if you hang out with a "lifestyle" crowd, you will find that this is extremely commonplace, within that group of people.

Just keep doing what you are doing, enjoying testing your boundaries, but realizing that if it isn't for you, you don't have to do it. As long as you are both consenting and enjoying yourselves, I wouldn't worry about the word "normal."

 

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