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not feeling it...
| Mon, 04-16-2007 - 4:49am |
A couple of weeks ago I was messing around with my "bootycall". After giving eachother oral we were cuddling in his bed. He starts to play with my breasts but I could not feel anything. I kept telling him to squeeze harder but there was still no feeling. I have DD's so could that be the problem?

Hi shortchick and welcome to the board.
Are you saying that you were numb or are you saying that you did not find it arousing for him to touch your breast? What happens if you touch your own breasts?
Most of my life, I had what I termed "non-reactive breasts". Like you, I am a double D, but I don't think that had anything to do with it. I didn't find that having my breasts touched in any way was particularly arousing; however, in the past year or so, that has all changed. There is no explanation for the change, other than my entire libido has been on the rise. My nipples barely got erect in the past, and now they get so erect they are painful (in a good way). My nipples get erect now if I even think about sex.
If you were numb, then you should see your doctor to make sure that you don't have any nerve damage, or problems with your blood flow.
The size of your breasts has nothing to do with how sexually responsive they are. Many women don't react to breast or nipple fondling, and many do. If you always have, and suddenly it changed, and it bothers you, then see your doctor. If this is the way you've always been, then this is the way you are.
It might change as you mature, and learn to relax and enjoy it.
PS: Squeezing harder isn't always the solution, either. Maybe being more GENTLE, and concentrating on the nipples would be better.