Not Quite Sure About Anal
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Not Quite Sure About Anal
| Sat, 05-07-2005 - 10:37am |
Last night, DH and I were talking about anal sex. I revealed that I originally tried it because he seemed to have wanted it so bad and that I wanted to keep him interested in me and not wander, so I did it for him. WRONG, WRONG, WRONG, STUPID reason to do ANYTHING, but hey! life happens. So, we tried it..Did it once...That was three months ago. Tried it again when he came back from his first business trip..Couldn't master it. Too nervous, tense, worrying to much about things out of my control. Couldn't do it. Hurt and the pressure..Amazing. So, last night we were talking about it again. On the way home from the store, I said to myself, "I'm gonna do it and I'm gonna like it." So, I just went to the bedroom and stuck my backside up in the air and said, "Come and get it." He was gentle. If I squeaked in pain or asked him to stop and just sit there for a second, he listened. Then I found an angle that was semi-comfortable and said, "Drive 'im home, stud." And it started to feel good. A little rough because I don't think there was ENOUGH lube, but starting to feel good..Then he was finished. He lasts not so long that way. He said its because its a whole new sensation and so much tighter than vaginal sex..But just an occassional thing, not to replace vaginal sex at all..(Sorry I'm leaving such choppy sentences..My shoulders are screaming this morning..) AFTER he had finished and he was still hanging around, if ya catch my meaning, he leaned over me and was resting gently on my back..(Still inside if ya didn't catch my meaning) and that angle felt good..I kept thinking, "Get 'im up again! This feels good!" But, I still feel so ashamed for doing anal. How do I conquer these feelings?
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| Sat, 05-07-2005 - 11:08am |
You're two consenting adults and you both enjoyed it so there's nothing to feel ashamed about.
| Sat, 05-07-2005 - 11:12am |
I think it is the taboo of anal sex. I feel so dirty when we're finished. Like I've had an affair. I've never had one, but I imagine that's how one would feel if they did. I just felt like I needed another shower (I probably did, we both just stunk of sex). I just get squeamish about certain sex acts. Yeah, we were consenting. But, it just feels so dirty and I feel like I'm doing something wrong when I know I'm not. *LOL* I sound so moronic! *LOL*

