not what you have, how you use it
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not what you have, how you use it
| Sat, 08-25-2007 - 7:56pm |
ok, I've been repeatedly told this through out my life.
As I have established in another thread, I am inexperienced when it comes to intercourse. I believe I am quite good at giving oral and at foreplay, I have been told I was many times, I can do nothing but believe them.
So my question, as lame as it sounds, is "how do you use it"?
short of the basic in and out method, I'm always confused by the "how you use it" comment.

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well, oral and the caressing, I have received nothing but kudos, although i am told I spend to much time at it or at least thats what the ex said, she made the comment that she couldn't tell if I was teasing her or just timid when it came to the caressing. Oral, my partners have always walked away happy.
I just never seemed to get much response on the intercourse, although, I was with an old friend this weekend and she seemed to be rather pleased with it, so maybe it was just my ex.
Right now my biggest problem is positions, but since i have a limited pool of experience with women I can't say if it is me or my partner. I've only had 4 partners in my life when it came to intercourse, 1 of which was when i was 15, the others after the age of 30. I fooled around with more than that but as for actual intercourse, only 3 in my adult life.
The first girl pretty much did everything, I was so nervous I didn't know what to do, she was on top and I kept thinking that I should be doing something so I would move my hips or what have you, in the end she said it was like riding a bucking bull, I took that as a bad thing. We never had sex again so experimenting was out.
Second girl, one night stand, tried a few things and all didn't work to well except for missionary.
3rd girl (my ex) tried different things with her but she wasn't very adventurous in the bedroom so she didn't exactly work with me.
as for the most recent time, I hooked up with the one night stand girl again and things went a lot better, missionary and doggie style went well, didn't try any others at that time.
I'm not even sure how many times positions should be changed when it comes down to it.
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