Now what?

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Registered: 06-04-2007
Now what?
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Mon, 06-04-2007 - 2:00am

I had my first date last night with a nice, sweet, sucessful guy. But, here's the catch-I didn't feel any chemistry. His face was alright, and he was shorter than I like, but I didn't feel any sexual excitement. He has asked to see me again, and has even started to call me sweetie. He may be too nice.

So my question to you guys is: If the chemistry is not there on the first date, will it ever be there?? Am I wasting my or his time, if I agree to go out with him again?

After he took me to dinner, we went to a movie. Now, I usually get sexually excited in the movies with a man I'm dating and visualize how his hand would feel on my leg, with this guy, nothing.

I can't get excited about a guy if I think he's too nice to get nasty or handle himself like a real man in the bedroom. I would kind of like to sleep with him to see what he has to offer in that dept. Anway, opinions please??

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Registered: 06-04-2007
In reply to: sweetivy2007
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 8:14pm
Thanks, aqaurius. I feel more at ease now. If he continues to be nice, I'll continue to see him for awhile. Your post is certainly encouraging, so we'll see.

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