Number of partners

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Registered: 03-22-2005
Number of partners
15
Wed, 01-04-2006 - 1:51pm

My BF & I are on opposite ends of the "experience" spectrum. I know I've had WAY fewer partners than the average 30-something still-single woman, but I'm curious as to what exactly average is, especially since I think his number is higher than the norm. I don't have a problem with his past -- that's what it is, the past. I'm just wondering how many partners most guys have during their single years and is my guesstimate of average really that far off.

So, if it's not too personal a question, I would appreciate it if you would please respond to my post with your age range (under 25, 26-35, 36-45, 45+ will work) and how many people you have had sex with in your life?

Thanks everyone!!
vfclead

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Registered: 07-10-2001
Thu, 01-05-2006 - 5:03pm

I'm 44, I've had 14...2 before marriage, then 1 for 20 years, then the rest while looking for my current fiance.

She's 43 and I'm number 3.

We've talked about it a lot...I've even offered to let her catch up to me after we're married.

(I don't have the biggest tool in shed, so if she was to experience others, I figure it is the least I can do.)

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Registered: 12-04-2005
Fri, 01-06-2006 - 9:58pm
I'm sorry for stirring the pot in miss vcfleads head. We had an honest talk the other night and told her I've been with about 60 partners. After doing a little thinking back I believe the real number to be around 45 and I'm 30 years old. I apparantly had the wrong impression of what average was. I guess its a good thing I get tested several times a year.
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Registered: 11-17-2005
Sat, 01-07-2006 - 3:50pm
I'm 32 and was with 4 people before I was married at 21 to my DH who makes 5. DH, who was also 21 when we wed, had been with 3 people before me and I make 4 for him.

 

 

 

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Sat, 01-07-2006 - 8:59pm

At least 10 or 20, but I'm pretty sure its less than a thousand. I never played in the NBA.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 01-07-2006 - 10:24pm
Male too old to mention. I have been only with my wife and I was her one and only. Never any need for testing here!!

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