oddly curved penis?

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Registered: 11-18-2006
oddly curved penis?
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Sat, 11-18-2006 - 3:16pm
Need some advice here please!
I recently met a great guy and we've been exclusively dating for about a month now. We've discussed sex and we've fooled around, but haven't had sex yet. Here is my question...his penis is curved downward rather than upward.
I'm concerned about what this is going to feel like and I do have a condition that causes some pain when entered (it is not a lubrication issue) so I'm wondering if his shape will hurt that also? Does anyone have any experience with this and can tell me what it is like? Also, what positions are most favorable for shape? Since he and I have talked about sex we both have mentioned enjoying woman on top with me facing him so we can kiss---anyone know if we are able to do that? Any advice or tips would be helpful!
Thank you.
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Registered: 11-07-2006
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 12:40am

oh yes....been there, done that. it's a little scary at first sight isn't it? i have only been with one person with the curved down penis thing, so i am no expert, but it definitely felt different for me than say a "straight penis."

basically it makes you feel like you have to sh*t, since it puts extra pressure on that area when he is in you. as far as positions go, i did feel some alleviation to that feeling when i was on top.

probably not helpful, but at least you can see what you might expect.

have fun!

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 1:23am

Any time two new partners get together, it takes a little practice to get it right, no matter what shapes and sizes they are. An erect penis is hard, but it's not concrete, and it will still flex a little, and your vagina is also flexible. But how HIS penis will fit and feel in YOUR vagina, you'll have to try it to find out. Then you'll have to experiment with positions, to see which ones work best. Woman on top is one most women love, regardless of a mans curvature....it's a great way to get clitoral stimulation during intercourse, if you do it right.

There's no way for anyone to tell you what will work, what won't work. We're all different, and experimenting is half the fun of sex anyway.....so just try whatever you can think of.....if it's a problem, try something else.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Mon, 11-20-2006 - 12:55pm
It's pretty normal. My last serious bf had a huge one that curved down, what, maybe 10-20 degrees. It felt absolutely amazing -- i mean he turned out to be a jerk, i'm just talking about the physical sensation -- and that shape is very good for deepthroating if that's your thing. I don't know how it would feel if it was really sharply curved, but that one was awesome.
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Registered: 03-15-2006
Tue, 11-21-2006 - 6:25am

Sounds like WOT is the way to go and facing away from him might be the best. Let us know how it was for you.

R

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