Oh my god! Another situation!

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Registered: 08-01-2007
Oh my god! Another situation!
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Fri, 08-03-2007 - 8:37pm
Wow am I just full of sex problems, but this one is BAD!!! I may be the worst mother in the world after last night! Last night well after our daughter had gone to bed, my husband and I began to have sex. We actually had vaginal intercourse as we are trying for our second baby now (after last night I may not deserve one). Fairly routine stuff, and after quite a while my husband came into me. I figured we'd probably go to sleep after that, but as I was beggining to doze off my husband told me he was ready again and said he wanted anal as he had already come in me for the day. He decided he wanted to do it in what I consider a very awkward position. He had me on my knees in the middle of the bed, and then with my head flat on the pillow so basically my butt was straight up in the air. As soon as he penetrated my ass, he began very hard and fast. At one point Im pretty sure he was completely off the bed as he began his thrusts, and was throwing all his weight into me. I usually stay fairly quiet during sex when my daughter is slepping, but was thrusting me SO hard at points there was enough pain I let a few screams out. He also has recently began talking pretty dirty during sex and was saying things like "your ass is so tight"... "Im going to come in your ass soon", and "keep your ass up so I can pound it". Well... onto the horrible part. After about fifteen minutes of this he came, quite loudly, and got off of me. He immediately laid down facing the head board, but I sat up and there she was!!! Oh my god. Just speechless staring at us. My husband claims he locked the door, but he had gone to the bathroom after the first session, and he obviously didnt lock it the second time. After trying to explain to her what we were doing was natural and all mommies and daddies do it, you know all that stuff, she still wouldnt really say anything. What should I say to her???? My god! There is a good chance she witnessed most of it, if not all! She is 6. PLEASE OFFER ADVISE!

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Fri, 08-10-2007 - 7:18pm

Hell Jess,

Congratulations on having a healthy sex life and being a good mother and a gooooood lover and wife! I don't think you daughter will be scared for life by your healthy sex life. She is here in part because of it. LOL

You handled it well.

I have a friend that walked in on his parents when he was quite young and his older sister came in the room and took him out and the sister, father and of course mother said mommy and dad were playing like adults. He is OK.

I walked in on my parents once and I'm OK.

This may be news to you but most barnyard animals and other animals see their parents go at it. There are several situations where people that can't afford private bedrooms or because people live in close quarters the children see this happen. It may be more the norm than you realize.

Just be ready for any questions. Your adults and you do what adults do for fun and because you care about each other.

There is a very good chance you daughter may will grow up and have heathier out look on sex between loving adults than she would if she had not seen you.

Wash the sheets. LMAO Kiss your husband and laugh about it.

Your daughter will be fine.

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