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Is this OK
| Sun, 05-09-2004 - 4:31pm |
My BF is a great guy. It's just that sometimes he does things that I'm not sure is OK.He warned me from the beginning that he likes a woman that doesn't restrict him sexually. S
She should like everything.In front of his friends he tells them that I like it up the ass and then he reaches into my panties and sticks his finger in it and then makes his friend's smell it.He also wants me to strip for them.Is this OK or normal?
She should like everything.In front of his friends he tells them that I like it up the ass and then he reaches into my panties and sticks his finger in it and then makes his friend's smell it.He also wants me to strip for them.Is this OK or normal?

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And don't let him try to manipulate you into doing something else. When I said No to going topless in front of his associates, later that night as we were in bed, he was all lovey dovey and doing everything wonderful to me, but the whole time, he was suggesting that I just go topless for one of his associates then, not two. And it was because he was going through a divorce and was having a hard time and how much better it would make him feel seeing my breasts (he's always wanted to, blah,blah). He went on and on, telling me how there would be no touching of any kind and that maybe his associate would just be out of the room somewhere unbekownst to me so I would feel more comfortable. Honestly! He tried every angle. I still said No.
About a month later, my husband and I took one of his "out-of-town" associates to dinner and a club later. We were having a good time and we were all dancing and even brought a couple girls over to the table to meet his associate. It was a great evening, we got a little drunk and silly. Well, in the limo on the ride home, my husband began kissing me and taking my dress down to expose my breasts. His associate was sitting across from us and I kept tugging at my dress. Eventually I ended up giving in (because it was very hot and my husband really knows how to work me), but I felt like he had gotten his way afterall. He later told me it was unplanned, but I don't know.
So, be careful of guys like this. I love doing kink sex with my hubby, but I'm learning to set boundaries. Just learning.
Edited 5/10/2004 7:40 pm ET ET by tiana_rose
Leticia
First of all going down on your b/f after sex is one thing and is fine if you are OK with it, but her b/f bragging about what she does and sticking his finger up her butt in front of his friends and making them sniff it is a whole different story.
Any guy who makes you do
Do you know how to listen to your own gut? Does that discomfort mean anything to you? It's there for a reason. Allowing your husband to talk you out of your feelings doesn't mean it's okay. It just means that he persuaded you to ignore your gut once again.
I think you need to sit down, figure out what is and isn't okay with you and then talk with your husband, since you don't seem to know what you really feel or if you're compromising yourself.
Edited 5/11/2004 1:41 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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