Okay I have a question, please help
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Okay I have a question, please help
| Mon, 08-07-2006 - 10:07am |
Okay I was wondering if this is normal I guess...when a guy fingers you and you bleed..it happened to me and it never has before. I guess maybe because he was going, well, crazy, like really fast and stuff. I just thought it was weird. I am on birth control and my periods are fine, I haven't missed any pills or been late so it's not irregular bleeding from that or anything. It didn't continue either it was just right after it happened. Just wondering...???

And if the fingering isn't doing anything for you, then ask him to move his fingers to your clitoris instead of or along with the manual penetration.
Most women need direct clitoral stimulation to become aroused and orgasm. And since this was likely his and your intent with the fingering, at least get something more out of his efforts than damage. Remind him that just because you aren't screaming in pain, doesn't mean that he can't hurt you.
And it's always a good idea to ask him to trim his fingernails and wash his hands before putting them near your vagina, too. If you have a vaginal scratch or abrasion, he could give you an infection.