older men young girls?

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Registered: 05-10-2007
older men young girls?
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 9:52pm

Why is it that some very attractive very young girls have sex with some really ugly older men? I mean, jeez Im 21(good looking) and haven't had any luck yet! Not like that anyway.

I think its just weird and kinda offensive.

What makes some young girls so attracted to older guys? Are all girls attracted to older men? And how do the older men get with such young girls?

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 11:53pm
Hey nate...For some reason alot of girls have a fantasy of being with an older man.
I can say that I often fantasize about it. I honestly don't know why but for some reason older men can be very attractive.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Thu, 05-10-2007 - 11:58pm

What do you call "older"? 30? 40? Why do young girls do anything? Because they want to! Maybe the guy has money. Maybe they treat them more politely. "Ugly" is in the eye of the beholder, too. Maybe they don't look ugly to them.

There are plenty of young girls who DON'T have sex with older men, too. Maybe you need to look for girls the apropriate age for you, and not concern yourself with having sex with them, but with getting to know them.

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Registered: 05-10-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 12:15am

Im 21 and it is a little disheartening to know some girls would rather have an older man then me.

Oh, well. Im not going to dwell over it.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 1:50am
Some girls want older men, true! SOME! Some girls want other girls, too! And MANY girls are looking for nice decent young guys who will treat them like ladies.
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 2:14am
They're richer than you are, own a house and probably more than one car, know more about the world than you do, know more about sex than you do, have more confidence than you do, often have more stamina than a younger man...I'm sure I've left out some other very good points.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 8:56am

Some girls doesn't mean ALL girls.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 8:58am

Nate, I married a man 10 years my senior. I wasn't looking for an "older man", but our relationship developed just as any other relationship has the chance of developing.

While physical attraction is often the first thing that brings people together, it is only an opportunity. Could be someone looks for "opportunity" by standing outside of the bank window everyday. Others may peruse the parking lot for sporty cars! Some people hang out on the beach and let bathing suits guide them. I think you are trying to look for a "rule" that doesn't exist.

Some people have charisma, and others don't. I know a guy who's short, fat, balding, wears glasses with one eye looking off to the left. He's rude if he wants to be, funny as hell, and very confident and cocky. He's in his young 30's. He has girl after girl falling over themselves after him, and the most shocking part is that they are all beautiful, successful, intelligent ladies! His confidence and social skills "land" him where he wants to be! He usually has a steady girlfriend and a sex buddy or two in the wings.

If you're just looking for sex, strutting your stuff and sending the message of "look at me, come and get it", you are probably turning people off with your "attitude" more than anything. Even girls who just want to have sex for the fun of it need to feel like it will be a positive experience overall, KWIM?



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Registered: 04-29-2003
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:51am

hehehe, one minute you're asking how you go about having sex with an older woman and now you want to know why women like to get with older men?

I think you're generalizing too much. Perhaps you need a touch of sensitivity and modesty.

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Registered: 05-10-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 12:55pm

Actually the last thing I want is to get "laid". Right now Im just aiming to have a friend, to hold hands, and go out.

Who says I don't have more then one car, respect, strength? I have every one of those and I am protective as well. One girl said I was too nice though.:( Not always true.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 3:24pm

Believe it or not, sometimes you CAN be too nice. Meaning overly protective, too complimentary, etc. Moderation in all things. Most women want a guy who will open doors, but they don't want to be treated as helpless, either.

Unfortunately, some girls go for the "bad guys" who treat them like dirt.....but that's THEIR problem.

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