older men young girls?

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Registered: 05-10-2007
older men young girls?
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Thu, 05-10-2007 - 9:52pm

Why is it that some very attractive very young girls have sex with some really ugly older men? I mean, jeez Im 21(good looking) and haven't had any luck yet! Not like that anyway.

I think its just weird and kinda offensive.

What makes some young girls so attracted to older guys? Are all girls attracted to older men? And how do the older men get with such young girls?

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Registered: 05-09-2007
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 8:32pm
I for one use to date older guys when I was younger! Mostly because I found them more stable in life. Plus they knew what they really wanted.
When I married the second time I married a man 19 years older than me. And we had so much fun both in and out of bed! He knew how to treat a woman and just to touch to get me off.
So for me it was the experiance and the freedom to be more open with sex and where to have it.
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Registered: 03-03-2007
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 6:24am

>Because younger females are more fertile, capable of having healthier babies and less likely to die during childbirth.<

This doesn't explain the fact that the majority of older men who chase after young women are already fathers and are not looking to reproduce.

It is because, as psychologists have said, men love women for their appearance. And since women look better when they are younger, well...there you go.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 11:29am

Not all guys date women for their appearance, and not all younger women look better. Younger women tend to have firmer bodies with less work -- that's it. Many men don't like the look of a younger woman. There is absolutely no reason why a woman can't be at her peak of attractiveness in her 30s, 40s, or 50s, perhaps even beyond.

I do think there are men who like the look of younger women. Some just because that's what they prefer, and some because it feeds their ego. I just don't think "every" man falls into that boat.



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Registered: 02-09-2007
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 1:33pm
Every man does not fall into that boat!
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Registered: 07-05-2006
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 5:13pm
I think it's just because older guys are more mature than the young ones which is why a lot of girls go for the older guys. Probably doesn't have much to do with looks either. I mean my bf is older than me, not many girls would find him that attractive because he's overweight, but that doesn't bother me. Even his brother saw a picture of me and was like "damn she likes you?" lol it was kind of funny but yeah I think that's the main reason.
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Registered: 05-21-2007
Mon, 05-21-2007 - 6:53pm
I've dated much younger and slightly older women. I don't think anything has anything to do with anything except pure attraction. Why is it offensive? I spent two years dating a girl just over half my age, and it was terrific. Now I'm seeing someone just slightly older than me. What's the age problem? ... not sure I see it.
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Mon, 05-21-2007 - 9:35pm

Welcome to the board anothertallguy. Interesting quote in your profile -- I guess we know that you're a risk taker!



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Registered: 05-20-2007
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 1:17am
I guess it comes down to how much older the man is and what age group.
A 20 year old woman with a 60 year old men for instance…probably wouldn’t be interested in conversation, most probably the size of his bank balance is the appeal.
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Registered: 05-05-2007
Tue, 05-22-2007 - 7:57pm

No, but that's how men are genetically programmed. To find and breed with mothers who will produce the healthiest babies.

>This doesn't explain the fact that the majority of older men who chase after young women >are already fathers and are not looking to reproduce.

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Registered: 04-25-2007
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 1:52pm
theyre more experienced??? FYI.. Im only 22 and my fiance is 27.. I guess some younger guys are a bunch of idiots and immature.