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older men young girls?
| Thu, 05-10-2007 - 9:52pm |
Why is it that some very attractive very young girls have sex with some really ugly older men? I mean, jeez Im 21(good looking) and haven't had any luck yet! Not like that anyway.
I think its just weird and kinda offensive.
What makes some young girls so attracted to older guys? Are all girls attracted to older men? And how do the older men get with such young girls?

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i have always thought that older women make beautiful lovers...............oh wait, that's a song..............
but we older women do make beautiful lovers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I so agree with what you said here about confidence! Men are also attracted to confident women. If the OP of this thread feels that the women are being taken advantage of, I would also like to add that it is a "learning experience" for them. Some people never develop confidence in their life, but others have to learn what they want from life .... sometimes, that is via making mistakes. Many women are attracted to older men because they offer stability. They have already learned who they are, how to be confident, and have planted their feet. A lot of younger men are still learning these things, some never do.
While he might feel he is "rescuing" them, what he is really doing is taking away their opportunity to learn. The wants and needs of people change throughout their entire life. If someone needs protection, they need to learn to seek help too. So, if they ask for help, give it; if they seem like they might need help, offer it; if you feel the urge to interfere without their clear need or permission -- walk away, it's not your place.
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This in spite of what some would consider "less than attractive features".
What some do find appealing is that often times, the old geezer is well heeled and it would surprise you how some will overlook other attributes in order to gain access to their wealth.
Hi Nate,
in my experience, most guys my age(im 20), want casual dates and casual sex. Most older guys are mature, and they are looking for something more substancial.
My last bf was 25/26 and he told me he was NOT ready for a serious relationship but was willing to casually date and asked me about sex. he was disgusting and a-hole.
but now, im dating a 30 year old guy who is more concerned about his future plans. he's finish with college, is independent, etc. and more importantly, he wants a long term committed relationship!!
guys my age seem to be scared of comittment and only want sex. that really annoyed me and the age factor didnt bother me because we have a deep mental connection and now i feel appreciated.
Edited 7/9/2007 1:35 am ET by onegirlrev
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