older woman

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Registered: 11-17-2007
older woman
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Sat, 11-17-2007 - 4:08am

My questions are regarding an older woman. She is eleven years older than me. Perhaps some background would be helpful. The woman we are talking about I have known for a very long time. She was first my babysitter and then she helped me with homework throughout my jr. high and high school years. We have always been close. After serving in these roles in my life our relationship began to change. We started hanging out and doing fun things together. She is caring, attentive, bright, fun, and very beautiful. When I close my eyes I cannot help but see her with her beautiful long blond hair, nice smile, and her athletic body. When I can I try to sneak peaks at her breasts, which extend nicely out of her tops and her nicely formed rear end. Having said this I have not seen her in the nude but would very much like to. I have come to care deeply about this woman. I love it when I can run my hands through her hair and kiss her on the face.

A few weeks ago we were out for a nice evening of dancing. I could not help enjoy the close dancing. It was during these dances that her breasts were resting on my chest. There were only a few layers of cloth separating us. It was after this evening that I knew that I wanted to become more intimate with her. The next time I saw her I attempted to openly communicate this desire to her. I believe in open and honest communication with her. When I brought up the subject she seemed to change it. Maybe she is unsure of how she should respond and I respect her for this. Perhaps there are concerns about our prior background and/or our ages. How can I ensure her that these are not problems?

Since I tried to engage her in conversation about this without luck would it be ok that the next time we are alone in private together to just act on my feelings for her? Maybe this would open up communication with her on this subject matter or allow us to communicate in non-verbal ways. Next time when we are alone and I have the chance to rub my hands through her soft hair and kiss her smooth skin maybe I keep working my hands and mouth down her body. In the process I would be attempting to finally see her in the buff. This is bound to open up some communication. What do you think?

If we get beyond the point as to where we have been before what can I do to make our intimate time together very beautiful for her? Any advice about non-verbal intimate communication?

Regards,

Patrick Lloyd

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: patricklloyd
Sat, 11-17-2007 - 7:08am

Welcome to the board, Patrick. I think your fantasy babysitter has also found us! The great thing is, if you're both feeling this way, you have already opened the lines of communication. Check out her post at:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlletstalkab/?msg=21244.1

Good luck, and let us know how thing go ;-)





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Registered: 10-09-2007
In reply to: patricklloyd
Wed, 11-21-2007 - 6:06pm

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