OMG!!!!

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OMG!!!!
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Mon, 07-09-2007 - 10:51am

last night was my VERY FIRST g-spot orgasm!!! don't get me wrong, i orgasm every single time me and my b/f have sex and they are amazing and i never in a million years thought that i could have one better. well, last night he went down on me and b/c i was freshly shaven i was a bit sensitive to his beard stubble, so he came up with using his 2 middle fingers inside of me and cupping his chin in his palm so that he wouldn't rub me with his stubble, well in doing this he hit a spot that i had read about but have not experienced (yeah we have tried before but i just figured i didn't have one) anyway, when he first started with pressure there was the sensation that i needed to urinate and then with his tongue on my clit on his two fingers on that spot i couldn't help but explode and i swear it seemed to last forever!!!! i am very vocal during sex (and so is he) and he was louder than me and he wasn't even the one getting off!!!

so, to all of you women out there that have experienced this let me hear from you!!!!

have a great day! i know i am!

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Registered: 04-18-2006
In reply to: twilliams352003
Tue, 07-10-2007 - 11:10am
i did not ejaculate in the sense that i have read about but i did leave a bigger than usual "wet spot" on the sheets. as far as my b/f reaction - he said he wished he would have stumbled upon it way before now! he is a very UNselfish lover and his only desire is to make me happy and do things that make me feel good. if you read my previous post i said that i was so exhausted after such an intense (and long) orgasm that i fell asleep - which means, he went to sleep "loaded" - i wasn't embarrassed by any of it - i kept telling him over and over that i had only read about an orgasm like that! i have found that there is not much that embarrasses me when it comes to sex and our sex life is the most amazing that i have ever experienced. i just am amazed that we just happened to stumble across this b/c he was not looking for the "g-spot" he was only trying to keep his stubble from irritating my freshly shaven privates.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: twilliams352003
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 9:21am

Congratulations ! I have always loved those orgasms that come from g-spot and I am most definitely a bed soaker when it happens. Its funny now because my new guy and I always have to wash all our sheets depending on where we spend the night when he is home from work (he's on the road all week). He is shaped just right to hit my g-spot in several positions and he knows just when he is doing. With hour-long or longer lovemaking sessions he makes me cum over and over. I am considering buying a plastic mattress cover to put under my current mattress pad! I don't mind washing the sheets and the mattress pad but I don't want to have to keep relacing my foam that I have on top of my mattress!

There is a real great article on Ivillage right now about how to have continuous orgasms from g-spot and clitoral stimulation! You should print it out and get your boyfriend to try it! I know I am if we ever make it past tearing our clothes off when I do finally get to see my guy at the end of the week!




Edited 7/11/2007 9:23 am ET by tami-kins
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Registered: 01-10-2007
In reply to: twilliams352003
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 10:40am
Hi ladies. I have a question about the g-spot stimulation. We have tried several different stimulation techniques, but I have yet to feel any real pleasure. I just feel like I have to pee. I have wonderful clitorial o's, and we have incorporated g-spot stimulation with clitorial stimulation. Do you suppose that I am the exception? (HA!) But I really can't complain, our sex life is great.
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Registered: 04-18-2006
In reply to: twilliams352003
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 11:13am
i had that same sensation and it lasted for a very long time until the orgasm actually started. i had had a few glasses of wine but i want to say that he was stimulating me with his fingers and oral on my c**t for easily 30 minutes or more. but it always takes me a while to go unless it has been a week or more so that 30 minutes was quick! the sensation to urinate was strong but i knew instantly what it was b/c i have read about it and i just rode it until it was happening. all i know is just don't stop and handle it like a big girl and something will happen, i don't think there is anyway that it couldn't!!!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: twilliams352003
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 1:32pm

You will have the sensation that you have to pee. You have to sort of give in to that feeling -- let go of the thought that it's urine though. It's NOT urine, but it does come out through the urethra, if you FE (female ejaculate). Although you may not FE the first time, you will feel that you have to pee. Ride that feeling through, and you should make it to the actual orgasm. It is a sensational feeling, especially combined with clitoral stimulation.

Most often when I have a g-spot orgasm, I do FE. There will be a lot of fluid. I know that normally when I have an orgasm, I draw my muscles inward (contract my PC muscles). When I FE, I release those muscles and get the feeling that I want to push outward (like when urinating). It's a feeling like you are letting go, and the orgasm tends to last a very long time.

I know the first couple of times this happened for me, I thought it "had" to be pee! I smelled the sheets, no odor. No odor on my hands or his, no color to the fluid either. I let the sheet dry, and smelled it again -- nothing, not even a stain from the wet mark!



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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: twilliams352003
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 4:39pm

LOL .. I did the sheet smelling thing too when it first happened to me! Gosh .. that was over 20 years ago though and I don't think most people even knew what I a g-spot was.

The fluid from FE is normally very clean for bodily fluids. It continues to amaze me .. but I still wash my bedclothes every time my guy spends the night LOL.

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Wed, 07-11-2007 - 4:46pm

"LOL .. I did the sheet smelling thing too when it first happened to me! Gosh .. that was over 20 years ago though and I don't think most people even knew what I a g-spot was."

Well, I think we should all be jealous of you then! I can only wish this had been 20 years for me!



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Wed, 07-11-2007 - 4:53pm

That guy that caused me to have an orgasm like that for the first time (and almost every night after that) was a satyr! We lived together for two and a half years and had sex every night for close to two hours. How could I NOT end up having a g-spot orgasm lol. I remember I asked once how he could do that every night and he said 'don't all women want their man to be this way?' Unfortunately he was a complete maniac on top of the great sex. That guy was partly why I ended up with my last XH. The XH wasn't the greatest in bed but I felt very protected from the maniac with him. After all the sex I had for so long I erroneously assumed that I had had enough for a lfetime!

It all gets better though. My BF now who I love very much and is NOT a maniac is absolutely fantastic in bed! And absolutely fanatastic OUT of bed :)

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In reply to: twilliams352003
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 12:27am
I can say that you have a wonderful guy from what I am hearing from you.I am the same way as him and my wife knows it.Sometimes she says that I am crazy becuse the way I am.I tells her all the time how beautiful she are to me and how much I enjoy doing things to her and with her to keep her happy and satified.For what all I have gone through in my life,I can say this is the ONLY woman that I have ever had to stick by me.
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In reply to: twilliams352003
Thu, 07-12-2007 - 1:09am

haha, yea it does get easier after the first time. my boyfriend tried to get me to cum for so long, then one day it happened. (i was actually really embarassed, i had always wanted to but i made a mess all over. i was so embarassed i cried, lol!) but then the next few times it happened again. so we keep a towel around now too. =]

have fun!

**Amy**