Once you go big ... can you go back?
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| Tue, 10-18-2005 - 2:28pm |
This question involves intercourse. For the most part, I've never been in a situation where I could have intercourse with a man who was very large (say well more than 8 inches). But I've heard stories from a few girlfriends and other posts here, that speak of an experience where they've never slept with a very big guy. However, then they do, and if they can take them in, sex with smaller men is never the same.
So my question is, once a woman is able to take a very large guy in, is there no way she can get that intense feeling from intercourse with a smaller man?
Are the women who have an intense experience with bigger men, who subsequently can't get the same experience again with smaller men, girls with large vaginas?
Are Kegels the key to sucess in taking in a smaller man?
***Please, no soap boxing or attacks, or size doesn't matter speeches if you don't have experiences that answer the questions. ****
I specifically want to hear from women that have gone from small/average, to BIG (enjoyed), then went back to small/average and enjoyed that too (intercourse wise).

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I can't speak for any other woman who has made that comment on this board, Hump, but for ME, "it's what he does with it" means that the man behind the erection, big or small, is intuitive and compassionate as a lover. He wants me to enjoy the experience as much as he does. It's much less about the physical than emotional anyway. So, he's using his erection to please ME as much as himself and a woman KNOWS the difference immediately.
I think many men become so fixated on the physical aspects of sex, that they forget that the emotional is just as, if not more, important to the sexual fulfillment of women.
I could never sleep with a guy with a huge erection, just to say I did. It wouldn't satisfy me without the trust and intimacy of a relationship anyway, so it would be pointless. I completely agree with you that a long term partner and relationship leads to great sex more often than spontaneous hookups, etc.
Edited 10/21/2005 11:08 am ET by katmandoo2001
This last paragraph of yours Hump says it all.
Edited 10/21/2005 11:15 am ET by katmandoo2001
As I said, there is sexual chemistry which, of course, can lead to sex but people have sex for all kinds of reasons, too. Boredom, to feel close to another human being for the moment, manipulation, etc.etc.etc. We don't always have sex out of physical need though. Sometimes, people have sex because they're lonely and really want affection. I think many young women have sex hoping it will lead to a relationship.
Edited 10/21/2005 5:20 pm ET by katmandoo2001
I have only ever been with one man, my husband and he is a big man, I'm talking 9inches. I have never gone small and I dont think I could. After having 9inches for 6years, I truly don't think I could feel anything smaller. My husband hits my gspot every time and thats just amazing :D Most woman say that dont climax from penetration but I do. I do every time. It might be cause my husband knows right where my gspot is, but I dont know. I can only take so much oral before Im ready for penetration. Don't get my wrong, I love when my husband goes down on me, he knows just how to do it. I guess Im just spoiled. But I really don't think I could sleep with anyone who was smaller. Guess I can't knock small men because Ive never had one. But I like my big man and I think I'll keep him :D Just my 2 cents.
Randi
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