Once you go big ... can you go back?
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| Tue, 10-18-2005 - 2:28pm |
This question involves intercourse. For the most part, I've never been in a situation where I could have intercourse with a man who was very large (say well more than 8 inches). But I've heard stories from a few girlfriends and other posts here, that speak of an experience where they've never slept with a very big guy. However, then they do, and if they can take them in, sex with smaller men is never the same.
So my question is, once a woman is able to take a very large guy in, is there no way she can get that intense feeling from intercourse with a smaller man?
Are the women who have an intense experience with bigger men, who subsequently can't get the same experience again with smaller men, girls with large vaginas?
Are Kegels the key to sucess in taking in a smaller man?
***Please, no soap boxing or attacks, or size doesn't matter speeches if you don't have experiences that answer the questions. ****
I specifically want to hear from women that have gone from small/average, to BIG (enjoyed), then went back to small/average and enjoyed that too (intercourse wise).

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Apparently the white caucasian average is 5.3 "
That means that about half of white males are shorter than 5.3" and half are longer than 5.3"
Therefore a guy who is "average" is 5.3" in length. I think a lot of people mis-use the adjectives "short", "longer", etc.
Big (6-1/2)
Your post is confusing, so I'm posting to help me get a clearer understanding of it. It sounds as if you're relating his 9" length with g spot hitting. Since the g spot is only about 2" inside, 9" isn't necessary. If you meant by "big" that he is also extra thick, then yes, extra thickness will help rub the g spot. Very girthy guys that aren't necessarily extra long do tend to get a lot of loud moaning from women, and I suspect the g spot has some to do with that.
Correct me if I'm wrong, just guessing here, but it sounds like you are aware his 9" can reach a hot spot deep for you, and you somehow think that must be the g spot you've read/heard about. If it is that he is hitting a spot deep inside that feels great to you, that area is called the cul de sac. The cul de sac is actually located on the other side of the bottom vaginal wall. It's between the vagina and anus.
When you in an aroused elasticated state, your bottom vaginal wall becomes stretchable. This is how you can take all 9", as it's unlikely your vagina itself expands to that length depth. When he pushes your wall backward, he is pushing into the cul de sac. Though not all do, there are women that this drives crazy and some have very intense orgasms from it.
Is the cul de sac the hot area what you were thinking about?
I've known about that forum survey for a while. They are at 213 votes.
Rounding off figures:
7" was the overall top choice, receiving 31% of the votes.
6" came in second, receiving 28% of the votes.
8" came in third, receiving 23% of the votes.
The 'average size' range 5" to 6" combined received 35% of the votes.
The 'big size' range of 8" to 9" recieved 30% of the votes.
Huge range of 10" to 11+" received 4% of the votes.
Perhaps a clearer simplier way to view the results is as follows, showing 7" as the top choice, and the shorter and longer sizes almost equally pivoting off it in percentages:
5" to 6" ----------35%
7"-----------------31%
8" and longer------34%
Summerized, the distribution is remarkably almost equal: 1/3 central (7"), 1/3 above central, and 1/3 below central. What this shows is that the ideal size for 1/3rd of women is above average; the ideal size for 1/3 of women is average, and the ideal for 1/3 women is big.
Starting at the size 9" and longer, 11% votes total.
By itself 5" took in 7% of the votes.
Concerning the never ending debate as to whether bigger is better or not to MOST women, since 7" is above average, from this survey that you chose to name, then the answer to that question is yes -the majority of women do prefer more than average size.
65% 7" and longer.
35% 5" to 6"
Edited 11/1/2005 9:24 am ET by katmandoo2001
I agree, it's not definitive.
Let's look at IVillage's survey. There were eventually 129 total votes. Indeed 7" isn't the single number winner here, 6" is.
5" and less--------11%
6" ----------------33%
7" ----------------25%
8" ----------------18%
9" -----and longer 14%
Still though, above average size(7") and longer receives more votes, but it is closer at IVillage.
6" and less----44%
7" and more----56%
About the humpdadday's post saying that accept for rare size queens more than 7" is too much for enjoyment:
----------------IVillage poll-----------------Stripper poll
8" and longer------32%---------------------------34%
Close indeed.
The strippers did make 7" their top ideal, as opposed to IVillage that made 6" their top ideal. And the strippers did vote ever so slightly (2%) higher for 8" and longer. So your points that it's just one stripper poll are well taken.
Still though, I woud bet many people would be surprised that 8" and longer is preferred by as many one out of every three women, as both polls closely agree on. Actually, I would bet these polls change very few, if any, minds that are already made up that only relatively few women prefer anything over 7".
I'm not saying that these polls indicate 1 out of every 3 women are size queens. Size queens are women that prefer big AND put much importance on it. Most of the 33% choosing 8" and longer probably don't put that level of importance on it, but do have at least a slight preference for it, and voted as such.
Also, after 8" (9" and longer) the percentage of votes received drop off significately. This does indicate that 9" is indeed moving into a range that is too uncomfortable for the vast majority of women, as humpdaddy was correct about. On the other end of the chart, 5" alone doesn't do well on either poll either, indicating moving into a range that is less than optimal for the vast mafority of women.
On both polls 6" 7" and 8" by themselves gather in the percentages well. 6" and 7" swap 1st and 2nd from poll to poll, while 8" by itself comes in 3rd on both polls.
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