One more thing about sexual addiction
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One more thing about sexual addiction
| Sat, 06-04-2005 - 11:38pm |
I dont know whats going on with me.If I'm not having sex I'm masturbating I'm going to be thirty at the end of the year.They say when you reach your 30's you're in your prime.I'm kinda scared of my cravings for sex.I have done pretty much everything possible sexually
an I resently want to experience anal.Why am I so horny all the time an why when I have sex I need more?
an I resently want to experience anal.Why am I so horny all the time an why when I have sex I need more?

I don't personally subscribe to the theory that women hit their sexual peak in their 30's or 40's. I've had several peaks through the years and several valleys, as well! Our desire isn't a stagnant thing, many factors can affect our libido throughout our lives.
Is it possible that you're using sex/masturbation to fill some other need? Like a need for intimacy, affection or excitement?
IF you don't feel completely in control of your appetites, as you seem to indicate, then maybe it's time to take a breather from sex for awhile. Might give you a chance to fill some needs in a more appropriate way.
But are you being satisfied when you do have sex or masturbate? Do you orgasm consistently?
If you are comfortable with your activities, then just continue to enjoy your sexuality. But it's up to you to decide if you're happy with the course of your life at this point.