One night stand questions

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One night stand questions
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Tue, 06-07-2005 - 4:54pm

Some curious questions for those who have had a one night stand or multiple one night stands.

1) How many one-night stands have you had? I have had 18.

2) If you are married now, does your DH or DW know about them? I am married, he knows I had partners before him, but not the who or how many exactly.

3) What are three things you need from the other male/female involved for an AMAZING one nighter? Great kisser, willing to laugh and have fun, stamina.

4) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you have done during a one-night stand? Facial

5) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you were asked to do, but declined, during a one-night stand? One man wanted to “shave” me, man I hardly know with a razor near my privates, no thanks!

6) During your most satisfying one-night stand, did you find your orgasms were more intense because it was a purely sexual situation. Taboo or naughty to a point, just there to give/receive animal pleasure with no strings? During my most satisfying one nighter, the act itself gave me the most pleasure. But, there were times that night that I did feel more naughty/sexual doing what I was doing.

7) During your most satisfying one-night stand, what 3 things about the other person gave you the most intense pleasure? 1) How he made me feel so special, like I was the only woman on earth at the time. 2) His intensity during sex. 3) His size.

8) Do you recall the best body you were with during a one-night stand? What do you recall about it? One guy was a football player in college, he was like a Greek God…for some reason I remember how huge his thighs were.

9) What was/is the best part of having a one night stand? Worst part? Best part, the pure lusting and sex of being with someone new/different. Worst part, it’s not always good and sometimes I wished I hadn’t.

Bethany

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 06-07-2005 - 11:38pm

1) How many one-night stands have you had?
Probably 4 or 5.

2) If you are married now, does your DH or DW know about them?
She knows that I've had a couple, but has no interest in knowing exactly.

3) What are three things you need from the other male/female involved for an AMAZING one nighter? Alcohol, but not too much. Honestly, the only times I've had one night stands are times when vast quantities of alcohol have been involved. I don't do them when sober.

4) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you have done during a one-night stand?
BJ in the back of a taxi.

5) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you were asked to do, but declined, during a one-night stand? Can't recall/Wasn't anything.

6) During your most satisfying one-night stand, did you find your orgasms were more intense because it was a purely sexual situation. Taboo or naughty to a point, just there to give/receive animal pleasure with no strings?
I couldn't say that they were any more intense than normal. At those times, I hadn't had sex in some time. So it's difficult to say. There was certainly a thrill from having sex with someone you barely knew and hadn't planned for. I guess that would be part of the naughty/taboo aspect.

7) During your most satisfying one-night stand, what 3 things about the other person gave you the most intense pleasure?
Her physical attractiveness, her enthusiasm and ability in bed, great control of her PC muscles.

8) Do you recall the best body you were with during a one-night stand? What do you recall about it? Yes, I can recall her body - outstanding features? Small, firm breasts, smooth trim waist and long blonde hair to her lower back. But then I can recall the bodies, good bad or otherwise, of all my partners.

9) What was/is the best part of having a one night stand?
Unplanned sex that was sometimes very, very good.

Worst part?
Unplanned sex that was sometimes very, very bad and very awkward.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
Wed, 06-08-2005 - 6:44am

1) How many one-night stands have you had?
Around 16-17

2) If you are married now, does your DH or DW know about them?
I didn't start until after my marriage was over

3) What are three things you need from the other male/female involved for an AMAZING one nighter?
I love someone who cuddles well, who has plenty of sexual stamina, who enjoys sex as much as I do

4) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you have done during a one-night stand?
Gone to bed with a man at his home in the bed he and his wife share

5) What’s the wildest/kinkiest thing you were asked to do, but declined, during a one-night stand?
I always decline anal

6) During your most satisfying one-night stand, did you find your orgasms were more intense because it was a purely sexual situation. Taboo or naughty to a point, just there to give/receive animal pleasure with no strings?
There is always delight in the adventure of sex with a new person, and that really excites me.

7) During your most satisfying one-night stand, what 3 things about the other person gave you the most intense pleasure?
Affection, ability to remain hard and aroused, strong attraction to me.

8) Do you recall the best body you were with during a one-night stand? What do you recall about it? His hairy chest and statuesque member. I love men with hairy chests, but his organ was also incredibly good-looking

9) What was/is the best part of having a one night stand?
The spontineity of it.

Worst part?
Sometimes the sex has been bad, and sometimes I have gone away feeling morose and a little guilty.