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One Night Stands
| Mon, 05-21-2007 - 5:03pm |
I recently had a one night stand. It wasnt the first time I've had one, but this one was different then before.
Anyway, I was just wondering if anyone has ever felt emotionly weird the next day. I'd also like to know what some peoples veiws of one night stands are.
Thanks.

Welcome to the board pink_houses.
I think how you feel after a one night stand greatly depends on your own value system, and if you felt that you had a one night stand because it was your choice. Sometimes, you might have a one night stand with someone that you would prefer to have a deeper relationship with (or have a crush on), and you are hoping it turns into more. Sometimes you may feel that you were used, even if you willingly had the one night stand, or perhaps you were drinking and feel that you might have made a different choice had you been sober.
It all really depends on the circumstances of the event.
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An anonymous forum is a good place to confess that while I have acted like a hardass after one night stands and not acted like I cared, in a couple of cases I really felt badly afterward. In a couple of cases I felt absolutely used, and in a couple of cases I had done the using, and in one case I was really really attracted to the girl and she just went back to her previous bf!!!
I also feel that one-night stands are such a joke because it always takes a while to get really in sync with a lover. You can't possibly bond with them in a single outing. I can only remember one time when everything was perfect (... but because of that, a few months later we got back in touch and then dated for nearly two years).
It also has that sleazy feeling about it.
For me, no more one-nighters; that was a thing of the past!