one night a week

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Registered: 08-02-2004
one night a week
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Mon, 06-12-2006 - 1:30am

Your sex life with your SO is on the blitz. You agree with your lover to set one night a week for sex...no matter what. You even decide on the night. You decide to put pieces of paper in a hat and one of you gets to pull out a piece of paper with a sex act that is written either by you or your lover. Whatever the sex act, it has to be done that night. If not, the next week, you have to perform two of them. You are urged to of course put more on it than just "missionary style". You are trying to spice things up a bit and keep things interesting.

If you had to choose a few things to put down on paper for you and your lover to do, what would it be?

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Registered: 10-16-2005
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 3:55am

ooo.. I like this! :)

one thing I've always wanted to try was hot sex on the dining room table. I'd even set it up (i.e put a bunch of scattered papers and such) so that he'd have to back me into the table and with one arm, sweep everything off the table and just throw me up there and have his wicked way with me. >:)

oral sex in front of an open window in the daytime...nothing gets me purring than thinking someone might see.

doggy style sex in the backyard. My backyard is open..there's houses above mine and I have nosy naighbors. Maybe I'll spark some drive into their sex life! :)

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 8:25pm

Having done this and found it very erotic and satisfying I'de say handcuff your partner and do anything you want to them. They get no say in what you can and can't do. However, the object of this is to get them to beg for you before you release them. Very empowering to either party.

Sex in a jacuzzi, with other people around. Don't get caught!

Manual or oral stimulation in your favorite restaurant. Manual to either yourself or each other, and you can't leave until after dessert.

Sex so loud your neighbors actually comment on it the next morning. I've done this one too.

Make your own video.

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Registered: 12-07-2005
In reply to: manunit
Mon, 06-12-2006 - 8:34pm
Hi Goddess, after reading your first four suggestions, I just had to ask this. Have YOU made a video? If so, how much are they? ROFL David.
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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 3:48pm

LOL. No, my SO and I haven't made a video, YET. But he did just buy a camcorder, and 4th of July is right around the corner...

Oh, I thought of something else. Make your own Play Boy/Girl. You pick the poses and outfits, if any. And if your not the clothes type of person food works really well.

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Registered: 12-07-2005
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 5:11pm

Actually, Goddess, I'm a jump ahead of you. You know how flexible Ken and Barbie dolls are, right? And what's this clothes thing?

David.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 6:17pm

Him be completely submissive.


Me be completely submissive.


Hot candle wax and ice.


Anal play on


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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 6:38pm

Ummm...my experience with Barbie and Ken are that they are not very flexible. Please explain that one if you will.

Clothes, you don't have to wear the silk or lace or leather in the pictures you take. You can decorate each other with food as clothing instead, and I don't just mean the traditional whipcream and cherries and chocolate. You can use olives, cheese, pb and j, anything really.

Carla

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Registered: 08-02-2004
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 6:39pm
You sound like fun.
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Registered: 12-07-2005
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 8:15pm

Well, Goddess,

The last Ken and Barbie dolls I saw--don't get me wrong, these were my daughter's--were able to, well, uh, get into a "let's do this oral thing together" situation with no problem. They probably started leaving out that level of flexibility when they "skinnied down" Barbie a couple of years ago. You know...cost cutting...

I don't even want to think what they did to Ken as a cost "cutting" measure. Brrrr.

David.

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Registered: 01-31-2006
In reply to: manunit
Tue, 06-13-2006 - 8:31pm

I know what they did for cost cutting with Ken. Took his Corvette, made it pink, and stamped Barbie across the side, poor guy. Not even his car is sacred anymore. lol

Now back to flexibilty, the last barbies I ever owned moved at the shoulder joints and hip joints. Old school, I know. I didn't stop to think about the ones that have knees and elbow joints, so yeah I guess they are a little more flexible now.

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