Online Dating - How Soon Do I "Put Out"
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Online Dating - How Soon Do I "Put Out"
| Thu, 03-03-2005 - 9:25pm |
I'm in my 30s. I've been out of the dating scene for a long time. Prior to this I had a couple of long term relationships with men I had known through friends or school and one short relatiohnship with a male friend.
I met a guy online. I will be going on the second date this weekend. I've never dated someone I did not know previously.
What is the accepted time frame? When am I expected to have sex? Third date? Fifth date?

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You're probably expected to put out on the first date.
I'm probably rehasing what everything else has said, but if a man "expects" you to put out at a certain point in time, he's NOT worth your time. You sleep with him when it's right for both of you.
When I read your post, I got chills down my spine. I used to work for AOL in the Community Action Team. In that job, I had to wade through every inch of the seedy underbelly of the internet. Talk about warping your outlook . . .
I'm sure everyone has told you to be careful and all that, so I'm not going to rehash it. I just wanted to jump in here with my 2 cents. :)
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