only had sex with one person?

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Registered: 03-12-2007
only had sex with one person?
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Fri, 05-18-2007 - 3:07pm

i was wondering if there is anyone on here that has sex with only one person and what they feel about that....

i lost my virginity last year and am pretty sure that i'm going to marry my bf. i love him to death and would never cheat or anything, but a part of me is sad that i waited so long b/c i never could see what others were like. but the bigger part of me loves him way too much to ever do that b/c he is more important that any of that. he knows i think of having sex with pretty much everyone (that was even before losing my virginity), but i feel horrible when i'm like gee..i almost wish i would have experimented more even though there was nothing i would change :(




Edited 5/18/2007 3:14 pm ET by farmgirl9876

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Registered: 03-16-2007
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 12:38am
ive only had sex with one guy, my boyfriend. im positive that he is the man i will marry, and have NO regrets about losing my virginity to him. i am so glad that things happened the way they did and glad that he is the only man i will ever have sex with...i think it is beautiful and amazing that he will be the only one i ever experience. :)
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Registered: 03-12-2007
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 9:57am
there is a lot of other things in our relationship besides sex. someone that is 21 and a virgin by choice would not give it up for nothing. i think many people on this board are proof that sex is not a losing battle. we talked about getting married long before having sex.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 11:12am

Ive only had sex with one person (my Bf) and although I wonder what if I never experience nething with another person sometimes, im really not interested in being with neone else.. Now i dont know if we will ever get married or watever, but right now im just riding the waves of the relationship and seeing where our relationship takes us...

~Lioness

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 05-20-2007 - 11:22am
Welcome to the board Lioness. Thanks for joining in!


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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 12:17pm

why thank u for welcoming me :)

~Lioness

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Sun, 05-20-2007 - 6:36pm

WOW, good question. I did have other partners before my dh. At first I felt he was NOT the best of the bunch..but don't ever tell him. I was his first and only. It took US awhile but now he is the MOST incredible lover I could ever imagine. I think he was only not as good as I wanted because I wasn't as good at telling him what I needed. He has been the love of my life for the past 28 years and if I had met him before I had the other guys, I would have been just as happy.

I ask him occationally if he wishes he had had more experience with other women and his answer is always, You are all the woman I ever will want.

If you love your BF and he loves you, he will be all you will ever need.



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Wed, 05-23-2007 - 9:07pm

Hi farmgirl:

$ .02....I have been with three women; learned some...the 1st woman was a one-night-stand. It was just sex for both of us; but, I felt something was missing. Therefore, I longed for a committed relationship. Now, I have been married for 30 plus years.

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Wed, 05-23-2007 - 10:34pm
Why wonder if you are content with the experiences you have. If you are happy and fulfilled, work together on taking your relationship to higher levels of passion and lust. Sometimes, less is more!
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