Oops I made a mess !

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Oops I made a mess !
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Sun, 06-12-2005 - 10:38am
my ex and i still hook up and i stayed over friday night. he has dark sheets and there were cum stains all over his sheets but it wasnt him since he had a condom on .. its me! and there was alot .. i felt kinda embarrased because usually hes the one to make a mess lol. is this normal for a girl to ejacualate alot ? i know every girl is different but when i get aroused and lubricated down there, theres alot .. im hoping its normal !?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 10:49am

Your lubrication when you are aroused is not ejaculation, it's just your normal sexual lubrication.


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Registered: 04-25-2005
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 11:28am
so whats the difference between female ejaculation and vaginal lube? when a female ejaculates is it alot ?
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 1:59pm

The difference is exactly what Tish explained to you. Female Ejaculation is copious amounts of liquid......thin clear liquid. It is similar to urine, but it is NOT urine, although it comes from the urethra, not the vagina. Orgasms are not ejaculation. It's two different things. If you ejaculate, the whole bed will be soaked, with a clear liquid, not thick and white.....which is just your normal lubrication, which you produce whether or not you have an orgasm. Sometimes it's more, sometimes it's less....whatever it is, it's "normal" for you, at that time.

Also as Tish said, if you have dark sheets, you'll have stains......and you'll have the same stains on light sheets, but they just aren't as obvious. That's what washers & dryers are made for, and there's nothing that should be embarassing about it.

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 2:43pm
okay just checking and thanks by the way. :) you girls are the best
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 2:50pm

Here's a great site for you to check out.


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Registered: 06-07-2005
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 3:31pm

Here's a cheap idea to help save your sheets. Go to your local discount store and buy some disposable baby changing pads. They are great for catching the amount of fluid my DW produces both during lubrication and FE. Stick them in your nightstand to keep them handy.

BiggFigg

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sun, 06-12-2005 - 5:00pm

I agree....you need MORE than towels to protect your bed from FE! The changing pads are good......but even better are the washable ones that you can buy at a medical supply store. They don't "crinkle".....and are easily washed and put away for next time. They will cost more initially, but they will last forever.

They're called "incontinence" pads, and they're used in Nursing Homes and hospitals.