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Thu, 06-09-2005 - 3:55pm
i enjoy giving my man head but ive yet to let him cum in my mouth can any u ladies tell me what to expect im afraid ille gag kristin
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Registered: 06-01-2005
In reply to: kristin_202
Thu, 06-09-2005 - 4:06pm
dito... should i just suck and continuously swallow, or get it all in my mouth and then swallow? the LAST thing i want to do is gag/throw up, so what's the best way to go about this?
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Thu, 06-09-2005 - 4:44pm

Girls, you do NOT have to let them finish in your mouth. That's entirely up to you.....and if you have the idea that you'll gag, you probably will. AND, if you did, it wouldn't be the end of the world, either. Even experienced fellatists will occasionally gag....it means nothing at all except the gag reflex kicked in. So what? AND, if you do let them finish in your mouth, you don't HAVE to swallow it either....you can always have a tissue handy, and spit it out. However, once it's in your mouth, you might as well swallow it, because you'll never be able to spit it ALL out anyway.

What to expect? It depends on the guy....some have more ejaculate than others, some have thicker or thinner than others. Some guys "spurt" once, others several times.

How you handle it is according to your own "comfort". You can try to have a mouth full of saliva, and that will dilute it. You can loosen your lips so that it will sort of run out of your mouth and over your hand. It's only a teaspoon or two worth, so it's not going to drown you. (To the second poster....there's really not that much "sucking" going on, it comes out all by itself!) Just the in and out motion, and the tightness of your lips and hand is what does it.

If and when you're ready to do it, just go for it, and see what happens. The world will not fall apart if you DO gag.....so stop worrying about that.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: kristin_202
Thu, 06-09-2005 - 5:30pm

Kristin, you don't have to do anything that feels uncomfortable to you. IF you don't want to allow your partner to finish in your mouth, then don't.

But don't ever allow a partner to pressure or bully you into doing something that's unpleasant for you. Not saying that this partner IS pressuring you but what you allow another person to do to or with you should always be YOUR choice!

You do have the option of allowing him to ejaculate in your mouth but then spitting to avoid gagging when swallowing. Or you can keep a drink nearby to allow it to go down faster and more completely....IF you want to try swallowing, that is.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: kristin_202
Thu, 06-09-2005 - 6:06pm

As GTB and Kat said, let him finish in your mouth and/or swallowing is completely your choice.


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Registered: 10-18-2003
In reply to: kristin_202
Thu, 06-09-2005 - 6:38pm

1) Do you WANT him to cum in your mouth? If not, then you have no obligation to do so.


2) Do you WANT to swallow? If not, then you have no obligation to do so.


3) Does he WANT to cum in your mouth? If not, then you're making an issue of nothing.


4) Does he WANT you to swallow? If not, then you're making an issue of nothing.


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