oral with 5 O'clock shadow?
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| Wed, 09-22-2004 - 12:13pm |
I'm one of those guys who shaves his beard in the morning and has stubble showing by 3 p.m. My wife loves receiving oral but ONLY if I shave again after coming home from work---is this a reasonable request? She says my beard stubble is rough and hurts her down there. I can see how that would happen but see a ton of guys with full beards and mustaches out there and can't imagine that they are permanently giving up on oral.
Can you give oral to a woman while you have stubble without hurting her. Perhaps I'm not being careful enough.
What's my beef with having to shave again. Well, it would be one thing if my being shaved would guarantee lovin that night....but it really is a drag to go through the trouble of shaving only to find out the wife isn't in the mood that night. (clean shaven for nothing).

Well going from experience on all three, full beard, 5 o'clock shadow and clean shaven, dh had a full beard for a while and there was no problem with oral.
You ask why I can't simply ask her earlier on in the evening if I should shave. I guess I can and I have tried a couple times but she says that "kills the mood". If she says "yes go ahead and shave" she feels like now she HAS TO MAKE LOVE TO ME and that kills the spontaneaty and fun of it.
The idea of shaving as foreplay is something we haven't tried but it doesn't seem too appealing. Perhaps if my wife was the "hornier" one of us she would anxiously wait while I shaved...but mine has a low libido to begin with. My being "unshaved" just gives her an easy reason to say "no".
I don't get it...all these guys with goaties, etc. going around. Maybe they do have "softer" hair than me. Mine is the strong "Sylvester Stallone" type of stubble.
Himba, I can so relate.
Dbf is a major 5'oclock shadow guy and it's never bothered me. However, if it did, I don't think it would be an unreasonable request for him to shave. In fact, he'll often shave in the middle of the afternoon on a weekend and that's a signal to me for what's in store that evening! lol
I think it doesn't bother me much because so much of oral is tongue and lips ... not cheeks and chin. And once i'm going, its pleasurable enough he could be wearing sandpaper and i wouldn't notice ...
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Himba, listen to GTB, if the hair is long, it is not even close to being as abrasive. THat is because longer hairs bend, while shorter hairs do not. So short hairs (which have just recently been cut) have a sharper tip and stab into the skin of the receiver. My advice to you: grow a beard. I would too, except, well, I wouldn't. I tried once and ended up looking like Orlando Bloom except without the jaw line. There is another guy who definately needs to shave more often.
-phat