Oral and "Uncut" Guys.... Questions!!

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Oral and "Uncut" Guys.... Questions!!
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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 12:25pm
Ok, so i've been seeing this new guy.

Jacki

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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 12:36pm
I'm an intact male, and let me first of all reassure you that having sex (and oral sex) with an intact penis will be 99% the same as with one that's been cut, and things that have worked with past partners will also work just fine with your new guy. Especially for handjobs, you'll find that the foreskin will slide back and forth on its own, without any need for additional lubrication. When performing oral, slide the foreskin back before taking him in your mouth, and you'll find that the foreskin provides an additional target for your tongue to tease and tantalize in the process. As for the cleanliness issue, your guy has been intact all his life and is no doubt familiar with the couple of extra bathing steps that are required to keep everything clean and hygienic down there.




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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 1:11pm
I spoke to a friend of mine who told me her ex was intact, and that he smelled all the time down there and that was a big issue.

Jacki

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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 1:18pm
It sounds like your friend's ex just wasn't very hygienic. There are some studies that indicate intact men are less infection prone than cut men, due to the protection afforded by the foreskin covering the head.




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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 2:15pm

I agree with Steve, uncut or cut penis. They both work the same. And you can use the foreskin as an added advantage. Although, some reported that men who wasn't circumcised was more sensitive than a man who was. You can still lick, suck and stroke and do all the things you would do with any penis. But most of all, I can't stress it enough, ask him what it is he likes since all men are different and likes different things. Watch his reactions, always include the step children with your sessions.


Far as the smell, with uncircumcised men, they do tend to get smegma like the clitoris does. I would just make sure your man is freshly showered (even can make it apart of foreplay) and that him or you pull that foreskin back and wash that thoroughly. If he is free of infections and drink plenty of water. There shouldn't be a problem with an odor. Well, every person has their own distinct odor regardless, but if it's offensive, then that could be a sign of uncleanliness or an infection. I hope this helps.



Cherron'




Edited 2/11/2008 3:48 pm ET by goddess_cherron


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Mon, 02-11-2008 - 3:18pm

Welcome to the board, jetsluvr.

I've never been with an intact male, so I don't have a lot of advice to offer. There are several members here who have (or who are uncut themselves), and perhaps more will chime in. It sounds like you've already gotten some great advice.

You will probably be able to tell if your guy is a clean guy or not by the way he keeps his general appearance. As long as he has good hygiene, there shouldn't be an issue with odor or smegma.



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Fri, 02-29-2008 - 3:18am

There really isn't much difference as far as oral or sex go. You may find you like it even better, actually! I much prefer an uncut penis than a cut one. The foreskin give you something extra to play with and I personally feel that you have a little more options for stimulation when it comes to oral.

I have never had a problem with smegma or odor with the uncut men I've been with.

 

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Fri, 02-29-2008 - 8:04am

Hi there


very few men in Europe are circumcised, so you would find difficult to find one...I had 30+ sexual partners in my life and none of them were 'done', men who are not 'done' are usually very clean as if they are not they will get infections especially yeast so don't worry about that - I've got 2 sons and thought them from very early on in life about the hygiene - trust me it really is not a problem; as it come to BJ it's easier as the head is being rubbed by the foreskin as well so it gives the guy extra pleasure, you can also suck gently on it and then move onto the head...good luck and have fun


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Sun, 03-16-2008 - 10:38pm

First off uncut men do not suffer from 'smegma' apart from the ones

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Mon, 03-17-2008 - 7:17am
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