oral sex

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Registered: 10-23-2007
oral sex
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Tue, 10-23-2007 - 1:15pm
I love giving my boyfriend oral sex and he loves to receive it. The only issue is I can't swallow or even let him cum in my mouth because it makes me gag real bad. How can I avoid this so I can swallow his cum and make him enjoy it even more?
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 1:18pm
If you have a bed gag reflex then you have a bad gag reflex.
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Registered: 10-23-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 1:38pm
That is true Thank you
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Registered: 02-01-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 4:04pm
Babygurl, from a guy's perspective, I really don't think swallowing is a big deal. If you can't stand him cumming in your mouth, why not let him ejaculate on another part of your body, like your face or breasts? Just keep stimulating him with your hand as he's getting close -- tell him you like to watch it shoot. This will definitely turn him on.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Tue, 10-23-2007 - 9:24pm

Welcome to the board babygurl1807. You've already gotten some great suggestions. The only thing I'm going to add is that you might want to try using a flavored lube. This will help your mouth to be wetter and if the taste bothers you at all, it will be masked by the lube.

I'm one that finds having him deeper in my mouth or into my throat is my preference. That way, I'm not sucking and trying to swallow at the same time. If he's not far back, then when he cums, I push my tongue to the roof of my mouth in the back so that I can swallow all at once.



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Registered: 02-17-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Wed, 10-24-2007 - 10:29pm

I really like flavored lubes or Kama Sutras Honey Dust to add to the act. And, as others have said, you seem more than happy to perform oral on him, but that doesn't mean it has to be to completion. If you really don't like it, you don't have to do it. However, if you WANT to do it, but cannot figure out a way to get past it, the best advice I can give you is try the flavored lubes, or juice, or something else near by so that you can sort of mask his taste. You just have to set your mind to swallow it.

When I first started doing oral, I did not like swallowing and had a very hard time doing it. So, one day I dribbled some fresh juice from my mouth onto his member and performed to completion. It was hard to get past my gag reflex, but once I just decided, "I WILL swallow this time," I made myself do it and it got so much easier after that. In fact, now I love giving head.

 

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Registered: 01-17-2007
In reply to: babygurl1807
Thu, 10-25-2007 - 11:29am

Swallowing for some is very hard. In the beginning I had a problem but eventually overcame it. Try having him shoot it somewhere on you and then lick it off of yourself and or his penis.

Some people say to make up stories like I like to watch it shoot out of you. I find that honesty is the best. He will understand and will enjoy you cleaning up with your tongue and mouth afterwards.