Oral Sex

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Registered: 01-03-2006
Oral Sex
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Wed, 06-28-2006 - 6:30pm
Ok, I have never been able to give oral sex because everytime I try, I gag real bad. Several months ago, though, a woman said there was something that helped her to give oral, because she always gagged, too. It was somekind of a mouth numbing liquid that you used just before you gave oral. She said that was the only thing that allowed her to do it. The only thing is, I forgot what it was called and who made it. I really think it could help me. If anyone knows what it is, please let me know so I can try it. I would greatly appreciate it! Thank you!
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Registered: 06-07-2006
In reply to: mom_giggles
Wed, 06-28-2006 - 7:59pm

Well, the only thing that I can remember seeing on the net is this thing called Pleasure Balm by Kama Sutra, but I don't know anything about it and it doesn't seem to be a liquid to me. So you'll have to research this some more to see if it could possibly help your situation.

Good Luck,
Princess J

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Registered: 06-26-2006
In reply to: mom_giggles
Wed, 06-28-2006 - 11:51pm
Try some Chloraseptic throat spray. It's the closest thing you can get to the stuff they use in hospitals. I used to use it when I was learning and it sure does the trick
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: mom_giggles
Thu, 06-29-2006 - 12:46am

Oral Sex doesn't mean "deep throat". Your gag reflex is at the back of your mouth, in the area of the uvula. If you use your hand as a "stop", so that you don't hit the back of your mouth where the throat starts, you shouldn't gag.

The head of a man's penis is where all his sensations are, and if the head alone is in your mouth, he'll be happy.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: mom_giggles
Thu, 06-29-2006 - 6:40pm

You may have a very sensitive Uvula, that little pendulent organ that hangs down in the back of your throat, which causes some people to have a sensitive gag reflex. OR you just have a sensitive mouth & throat. Whatever it is though, the use of numbing agents of any kind aren't a good idea. You NEED to feel pain or discomfort if there is any or you could do damage.

Just keep the head of the penis in the front part of your mouth and use your lubricated hand on the shaft. It will feel basically the same to the guy, as taking most of his penis in your mouth.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: mom_giggles
Fri, 06-30-2006 - 7:07pm
I'll just throw in a third vote for "Don't put it so far back into your mouth". Deep throat is impressive and it IS nice, but it's really not necessary for a good BJ. A good enthusiastic BJ where you use your mouth, your lips, tongue and hands and lots of saliva is better than "deep throat" any time. As the others said, most of the sensation is around the head and the first couple of inches of penis so most of the fun can be done without stuffing it down your throat and risking gagging or even vomitting!