oral sex after he cums in me
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oral sex after he cums in me
| Mon, 04-16-2007 - 7:42am |
Is this to freaky? He is a fantastic lover and when he does this----- eats me after he has cum it leads to another great session of love making but is he weird or am I weird for letting him do this. He says he wants to make sure that I totally enjoy sex, he wants to eat me when he has come early or before me and says he wants to be sure I am pleasured. Implys that he is doing it for me and he gets nothing from it. It is true that after he cums I am so full and or wet that I do not feel alot and cannot come from penetration. What do you thinkk or has anyone else done this?

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It's not freaky and neither one of you are weird for doing it.
Welcome to the board karon. I don't think it sounds freaky at all -- DH and I do this sometimes too. Some women never cum through penetration, but I still enjoy penetration after DH has cum inside of me. Most guys loose their erections after they cum, so that would make it difficult for him to continue until you cum.
Are you comfortable with him giving you oral after sex? For me, it's a huge turn on, and I know DH enjoys it too. It doesn't happen every time, but I always enjoy it when it does.
Nothing that two consenting adults do together is "freaky", or "weird". It might be to another person, but that's their problem, not yours. What you do, and enjoy doing is "normal" for you.
I doubt if he "implied" that he gets "nothing from it". Saying he does it for you doesn't mean he doesn't also enjoy it. A truly good lover always enjoys seeing or knowing their partner is having pleasure. Sex isn't for one person to enjoy, it's for both people. Most women don't have orgasms from intercourse alone, and your partner seems to truly understand a woman's body, and plays it like an instrument. Sex is about "giving" as well as "getting".
What I think is that you are a very lucky woman, and yes, MANY people do the same.
Everybody has different feelings about men's cum. Some, both men and women, don't want anything to do with it and may find it gross. On the other extreme they may find that it adds to sexual enjoyment.
Naturally a guys sex organs are external and we expel our cum. Since the time I started masturbating I enjoyed the feeling of my cum landing on my chest and stomach. To me its just part of sex and not objectinable. Later when I started having sex with girls I enjoyed it when they would want me to cum on them and it was especially pleasing if they took it in their mouth. So I would say that I enjoy it when we use my cum as part of sex play.
Then came the time she asked me to eat her after I had cum. I stayed up around her clit trying to avoid most of my cum. But she was enjoying it so much and thrashing about that it was hard to avoid it. I found that there wasnt much taste with the main difference she was wetter because of it. She enjoyed it so much that it made me think if it is that good for her I am willing to do it. It made me think of doing it and I am more than willing to do it when she asks. I do find that even though I may have been thinking about it that I need her to ask for it after I have orgasmed.
There are a few terms that you may not be aware of. One is a Snoball, that is when she gives a bj but doesnt swallow and shares it with him. The other is a Creampie, that is when a man eats her after her has deposited his load.
I don't know what your feelings are about a man's cum. If it grosses you out and you don't like to swallow you may have a hard time accepting him doing it for you. If you are not grossed out then you enjoy it.
What I have found by doing it is that as a guy I don't always have to hold back my orgasm waiting for her. I like to outlast her but there are those times when she is having a hard time reaching an orgasm and she encourage me an then I take care of her.
I agree with everybody. It's not weird at all
Hubby loves to give me oral it drives him wild
It's great that he wants to please you.
Kareese
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