oral sex & g-spot stimulation

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oral sex & g-spot stimulation
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 4:46pm
Can someone please give me some pointers on how to give oral sex & massage my wife's g-spot at the same time. It seems so awkward trying to get my finger in her vagina to massage the g-spot with my mouth in the way. Please give details on the positions used. Thanks.

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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 5:39pm
You're right, it is very awkward to attempt digitally during cunnilingus. It might be easier to use a vibrator or dildo designed specifically for g-spot stimulation. There's just so much space to "work" around and I've never found an easier way to do it.
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 6:50pm
I think you should warm her up with licking all over and then when she's primed and you are mostly concentrating on her clit, then introduce the g-spot stimulation. Not sure what the proplem would be, her clit is probably not so close to her vagina as to get in the way of the fingering. I'm not sure what your technique is, can you explain how your mouth gets in the way?
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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 8:09pm
While your tongue is making nice wet warm wonderful circles around her clit..insert one or two fingers palm side up into her vagina, and then make the "come here" motion with your fingers. You should, with a little practice, find and stimulate the g spot with that technique.
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 10:42am
She is on the edge of the bed & I am on my knees licking her, so my mouth is in the way.
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 10:54am
Are you focusing on her clitoris? Or are you actually putting your tongue in her vagina too?

My DH will arouse me with cunnlingus only and then alternate that with g-spot stimulation. He doesn't try to both at the same time though because it's so awkward.

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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 12:17pm
hummm I dont find it awkward at all to do both at the same time.
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 4:33pm
Well, my DH has particularly large hands and fingers so that could be the problem. But I'm usually either on my back or straddling his face for cunnilingus and neither position is easy for him.

But, from the OP's post, it appears that he's not the only man who finds it awkward navigating down there.

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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 5:29pm
My wife and I used to do it like this. She lay on top of me in a head-to-toe position. I was able to stimulate her clitoris with my tongue. Then I would reach around and use my thumb , not finger, to enter her vagina and stimulate her G-spot. She had some pretty intense orgasms this way, but after a while decided it was just too much stimulation at once. In fact, now she doesn't like me to stimulate her g-spot with fingers/thumb at all.

However, she really likes a position we have for intercourse in which she is on top, but leaning back with her hands on my ankles, while I grasp her ankles (which are on top of my shoulders)and "row" her toward me. She doesn't too much distinguish which particular spot is being stimulated, but in this position the angle of the penis is very good for hitting the g-spot (and there couldn't be any stimulation of the clitoris, even indirectly). In this position , she has some of her most powerful orgasms (and I can really feel her contractions), but it's uncomfortable to sustain for very long, so I usually sit up after 2 or 3.

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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 6:15pm
Thanks for the suggestions, Taoist but they sound a little confusing. I can't quite picture the 1st description at all. How can you possibly reach around, with her on top of your face, and insert your thumb?
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Fri, 10-08-2004 - 9:29pm

Well, I will try to describe our position the best I can...


I usually lay on my back, legs spread and knees bent. He usually starts off with both arms around my thighs, to where his hands are on my pelvic area. One hand is holding my lips open (if I'm not doing it for him), his mouth is on my clit, and his other hand is down below. He manages to get one finger (usually that's all I need!) in there to work my gspot in a circular motion.


Sometimes, when he's having



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