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Oral Sex Questions
| Fri, 06-25-2004 - 6:28pm |
The guy I'm seeing wants me to give him oral sex, and admittedly I want to do it for him too. However, I'm really scared b/c I have a very stronggag reflex and I also have TMJ. My jaw locks and I'm left unable to move it and in real pain. Can someone please help me get over my fear and also tell me any tips for good technique. I want to do it, but those two things make me really nervous. Any help would be really appreciated it. Thank you!!!

before I start I admit I've never given oral to my bf as of yet, but i have read numerous boards on this topic and I'll tell you what I heard....
First, there is no rule saying you have to take in your gut until you are about to gag. Keep that in mind... Many guys enjoy mouth attention to the head, and normally wont complain when the girl uses her hands to work with the rest of his penis. Also you can lick the shaft witout having to put it all in your mouth... and if you truly feel comforatable with giving him oral, you should be able to tell him that you do have a bad gag reflex..... he should understand, and cope with it...... just dont forget that your hands can do wonders! Work as you go, and if it is your first time, he will understand... these things do take practice...
Hope I've helped
2-When my wife gives me fellatio, she doesn't deep throat; but, she licks and sucks the gland. With lotioned hands, she strokes the penis shaft. In that way, the fellatio can last a long time. She doesn't get a tired jaw or pain. Good luck! Please keep us posted, Mac