Oral Sex Swallowing Poll: Ladies, wh...

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Oral Sex Swallowing Poll: Ladies, wh...
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Thu, 08-23-2007 - 1:21pm

Oral Sex Swallowing Poll: Ladies, what is your preference on swallowing?



  • I actually like to swallow.
  • I tolerate swallowing for my guy.
  • I hate to swallow but do it for him.
  • I might consider swallowing for the right guy.
  • I won't swallow - ever or for anyone.
  • Other, please explain.


You will be able to change your vote.






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Registered: 10-09-2006
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 9:42pm
I can't imagine myself doing it...it'd create a huge gag reflex...i've only let a guy cum in my mouth once and it was cause I was drunk and not as coherent (but still coherent enough to spit it out) If I were to ever do it, it'd have to be with my husband.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 10:02pm
Ray Jay, do you have any insight as to why these men would hold back on us?




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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 03-30-2008 - 10:04pm
In a lot of respects, I feel that oral sex is much more intimate than intercourse.




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Registered: 03-23-2008
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 1:18pm
I actually like to swallow. But,my rule is that I really have to love the person if I am going to swallow his cum.
For the most part, I have not had a problem swallowing someones' cum. I have given plenty of blowjobs in my day. With past boyfriends, I swallowed their cum and had no problem. But, with my current boyfriend, everytime I swallowed his cum, I get sick to my stomach afterwards, just like an allergic reaction. I don't know if it is all the meds or his diet is the cause of this problem. Could there be something wrong with his cum?
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Registered: 02-12-2008
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 2:15pm

I know why I hold back and it may be the same for other men.

RJJJ


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 2:48pm

I know that different foods and beverages can also change the taste of ejaculate. It seems to follow that his meds could also make a difference, but I don't know if they could make you sick to your stomach.

Since he's going to the doctor soon, maybe have him ask if the meds could be mixed in with the cum. If he doesn't want to say specifically that it made you sick to your stomach, he could mention a change in odor to start the conversation.





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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 3:02pm

My DH is like you, his favorite time and place to orgasm is during IC. I even have a difficult time getting him to cum on some part of my body. Seems I have to remind him that it makes me HOT, and then he'll do it ONCE. After a long period of time, I have to remind him again, LOL.

He will ejaculate during oral, but only if he knows that's all we'll be doing. The frustrating part is that sometimes I just want to feel like I WOWed him and he couldn't hold back. Luckily, I have enough experience to know that it's not me (LOL), but I could see where some women would wonder.

I would just like him to relax more and go with the flow. We have talked about it a couple of times. Maybe I just need to keep reminding him that it really is okay.

Not TMI.





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Registered: 03-06-2007
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 3:28pm
My vote was "I actually like to swallow". It's a huge turn on and just seems to be very natural.










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Registered: 02-12-2008
Fri, 04-04-2008 - 6:52pm

I can see your point of view, the intimacy and

RJJJ


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Registered: 08-16-2006
Sat, 04-05-2008 - 9:35am
Bottom line is there has to be a desire just to do the oral part first, and since that isn't there I'm sure there will never be a completion
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