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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:00pm
I can only orgasm during sex when I rub my clit. Is this normal? Sometimes it seems to upset my bf.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:02pm
Yes, it's very normal. Why does this upset him?

Leticia

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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:12pm
I think that he feels its not his penis that is pleasuring me but my hand. I told him that wasn't the case.
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Registered: 05-18-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:15pm
Is he inexperienced? I can't imagine how he could not know the importance of clitoral stimualtion if he is experienced, the majority of women need it, and only a small percentage can orgasm from penetration alone.

Leticia

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Registered: 04-23-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:16pm
Most women can only orgasm with intercourse if they have clitoris stimulation with it.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:33pm
You sound perfectly normal to me, ctara.

IF this upsets your BF, then explain that women respond differently than men and take him over to look at www.the-clitoris.com and he'll realize that the clitoris is THE female sex organ...not the vagina.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 3:37pm
Right along with what the others have said...

...if it will help all, which I've heard in the past that it has, LOL, let him know that who post right here ALSO have wives who do the same thing. Its completely natural and necessary for the majority of women, NO MATTER HOW GOOD any man may think he should be. Different women have different genetic make-up with different sensitivity in those areas and no amount of experience in the world can change that. Maybe not a bad idea for him to read some of this along with posts from other guys as well. He'd be pleasantly surprised to find out just how normal he really is, huh? ;)

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Registered: 05-27-2004
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Wed, 08-04-2004 - 4:46pm
There's really nothing "normal" about sex, but if there was, this would be completely normal. You're b/f needs some education on how the female body works......have him read at the web site the others reccommended.

Also, try "woman on top", then you can rub it against him instead of using your hand. Most women LOVE it for that reason.