orgasm blues

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Registered: 04-26-2005
orgasm blues
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 3:34pm
I'm 36 and can masterbate and orgasm within minutes. The problem is I've been married for 12 years to my first boyfriend, and have never had an orgasm. This is so frustrating and not good for our relationship. Why can't I get over this "mental block". Any suggestions?? I feel I am the only one on the earth with this agonizing problem.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: bythemarsh
Tue, 04-26-2005 - 4:17pm

You are right smack dab in the middle of normal. ;)

Have you two enjoyed foreplay enough? Have you not orgasmed through foreplay alone? I can only guess that tantric/sensual massages may help like it does with me and Mrs. Para. Its not only relaxing, but it gets us in the mood more than anything anyway. Perhaps you two could study together and learn together about some more advanced techniques for foreplay.

 

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