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Orgasm during Intercourse
| Mon, 09-18-2006 - 11:35am |
most guys i talk to (friends, old bf, etc) tell me that MOST women they have been with have an orgasm from intercourse alone-


You're not the minority. Your male friends are living in a dream world. Chances are that since they think they're such great lovers.....that 99% of the time their partners are faking. No matter what they think, guys can't tell the difference between faking and the real thing.
Don't feel bad about yourself, pity them!
PS: Any guy that's willing to discuss his sex life in detail is also going to exaggerate it....they're sure not going to tell you that most of their partners don't HAVE orgasms!
I don't think that they're exaggerating, I just don't think that they truely understand what is meant by vaginal stimulation only. During most sex the vagina AND the clitoris is stimulated in one way or another. In most positions the clit is stimulated either by directly, by indirect pressure, or fingers or what have you. For example, woman on top would appear to be vaginal stimulation only at first glance - until you realise that when most women want to cum they press and grind the pubic area and clitoris down against the guy or use their fingers or use his fingers.
There just aren't too many positions where it's only the vagina that is stimulated. Even in doggie (one that comes to mind) clenching of thighs and/or fingers usually helps. I doubt that many couples have sex with *just* vaginal stimulation throughout the entire sex act. So when these guys are saying that most women they know cum from intercourse only (meaning vaginal stimulation only) they're not really telling the whole story.
The statistics simply do not substantiate what your guy friends are saying. MOST women need direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm. That's what a clitoris is for, after all!
Just because some women tell their guys what they would like to hear or believe, doesn't mean it's so. It just means that they are encouraging them to do what they THINK they're supposed to. Many women still believe that they should orgasm from penetration alone and too many men are clueless about female biology & sexuality.
Edited 9/19/2006 2:15 am ET by katmandoo2001