Orgasm during oral

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Registered: 08-05-2004
Orgasm during oral
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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 2:22am
Alright.. I've been having oral sex with my bf for the past 3 and half months. I've never really been able to orgasm through oral sex. The first time I was able to actually orgasm was about a week ago when he put his finger in my vagina (this was not the first time he did this) and then again just 2 nights ago when he did the same thing. Is this normal since I've heard most women can orgasm orally. Also, we tried it again last night and it wasn't working.. If anything it was causing me some discomfort.. whats up with this? Thanks!
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Registered: 04-19-2003
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 6:14am

Nothing's up with it....it's just the way you are.

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anonymous user
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 4:40pm
I have never been able to orgasm through oral sex either. And I too wondered if something was weird or wrong with me.
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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 4:46pm
I agree with Yasmin, sometimes its just the way some women are. Mrs. Para LOVES to orgasm through intercourse whereas the majority of women actually report they know absolutely NOTHING of it without clitoral stimulation.

I want to add that you possibly could benefit from a little extra advice, just as me and my wife did, that will help get you more aroused and eventually more capable of enjoying it more, even to the point of orgasm.

I actually COULD detail a few tricks and techniques, lol, but I'm instead going to suggest a few areas to visit, if you haven't already found them that is:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlimproveyou

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlpleasurepr

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-wcoralsextip

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-csgoingdown

The lower two are message boards that actually on oral sex techniques that help improve oral sex as well as provide tips for even better foreplay among others. The upper two links take you to message boards that focus on tips & techniques that help you become more aroused and they provide just fantastic advice on making every aspect of sex more exciting, including the ever-so essential foreplay.

Hope this helps! ;)

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