Orgasm without the buildup?

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Orgasm without the buildup?
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Mon, 03-27-2006 - 2:46am
I orgasm very easily. Once in a great while I will have one that just "happens". There is no build up, no signs of impending orgasm, it just happens. Very pleasent, but just vaginal contractions. On the rare occasion that this does happen, it is generally during g-spot stimulation. I'm not complaing, just wondering if anyone else has had this happen?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Mon, 03-27-2006 - 6:51am

"g" spot stimulation.......clitoral stimulation, almost the same thing! That IS the "buildup"!

Many women (and men) haven't found the "g" spot....but those of us that have, have orgasms from it.

Both the "g" spot and the clitoris are the same group of nerve endings, and between the two bring on most orgasms for women.

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Registered: 06-28-2005
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 5:05am
Maybe for YOU the g-spot and clitorial stimulation are the same thing, but not for me! They are two seperate areas with two seperate sensations when stimulated! I just wanted to start a friendly conversation, I did not ask for a lecture with explantion points ending every sentence.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 03-30-2006 - 9:35am
This is what I experience if there is no clitoral stimulation during intercourse. It feels good but doesn't knock my socks off. So, yes, I experience a similar sensation from g-spot stimulation and why I or my DH always add direct clitoral stimulation.
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Registered: 01-07-2005
Fri, 03-31-2006 - 12:06am
My clitoral O's have great build-up and intensity and strong contractions. My gspot O's (only had through penile penetration) have no intensity, and the build-up actually begins in my toes and encompasses my entire body (it's what I call my trip to heaven because I can feel it taking over my whole body), yet other than the 'taking over' sensation, there's no build-up or intense "pre" period: It feels good and then "bam" there it is. Now my clit can take up to 5-15 minutes to "release" and the buildup can be intense. Don't know if this helps, but it's my 2 cents based upon my body!
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Registered: 02-23-2006
Fri, 03-31-2006 - 7:31am
I can cum from having my toes sucked or even thinking of my lover while riding in a bumpy bus!
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Sat, 04-01-2006 - 4:55am
Yes! This is exactly what I am talking about. It feels great, but doesn't knock my socks off. I have always reached orgasm very easily, and they come in different intensities, depending on the type of stimulation. It is wonderful to be able to have mature discussions about sex with other people on these boards. Thank you for posting.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Sat, 04-01-2006 - 9:46am

Yes. It's strange. But there are different types of arousals(at least for me). There are some where I'm not even very aroused, but the stimulation of the clitoris(mostly) will cause a quick(and yes it can be quite strong or not) orgasm. It's more of a physical response, rather than a whole body experience...where the orgasms are long, powerful, and are felt throughout the whole pelvic area(as opposed to being more localized to the immediate genitals). I've also had such slow built-up orgasms that I have actually felt a tingling sensation from the bottom of my feet, all the way up through my face. It occurs during the point-of-no-return, at about 3 or 4 seconds before the first spasms begin.

But, yes, there are different types of arousal, build-ups, strengths and lengths of orgasm, as well as different types of stimulation that accompany each.

Strange enough, though, have you ever had an involuntary orgasm occur out of nowhere(without any stimulation at all)? I have. I could be on an elevator, and all of a sudden, walla!--a short, not very strong orgasm occurs; and I wasn't even thinking about sex--totally physiological. I always thought of it as the equivalent of the male wet dream(although I do orgasm in my sleep as well)....only it occurs at any time. Our bodies are a wonderland...




Edited 4/2/2006 9:25 am ET by rain_dancer_iam
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