Orgasm without an erection

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Orgasm without an erection
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Thu, 05-18-2006 - 10:02pm

Hi folks,

I have just got a quick but curious question...

I have heard that some guys can have an orgasm without an erection, and additionally I know someone who has had an orgasm like this.

Is this guy unique, or are there other men out there who can have an orgasm without an erection? I am so curious about this, as I didn't think it was possible to have an orgasm without an erection?

If anyone could shed any light on this and let me know if this guy is an orgasmic one-off, that would be much appreciated by my curiosity. Thanks :-)

goddess




Edited 5/18/2006 10:03 pm ET by goddess_bikingmad
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Fri, 05-19-2006 - 10:48am
My guy had an orgasm without an erection. I was giving him a bj but he wasn't hard at all yet (its a long story, but basically he went soft and I was trying to get him hard again). All of a sudden he came and it caught him totally off guard (and me too lol!) He said it was no where near as good as when he is hard.

 

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Fri, 05-19-2006 - 12:48pm

Hmm, interesting...

So it IS indeed possible! This guy I mentioned in my first post says that he can make himself have either type of orgasm as he chooses, AND the two types of orgasm feel almost exactly the same to him in terms of sensation and intensity. But I guess the latter is comparable to having an orgasm from intercourse and from a BJ - some guys experience them as very similar, others find an orgasm from one activity much more intense than from the other activity...just the way some guys' bodies are "set up" maybe.

But thanks for sharing - it has helped my curiosity somewhat :-)