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Orgasms???
| Thu, 06-21-2007 - 2:20am |
When my boyfriend and I have sex, I can only have an orgams when he fingers me analy..during sex. Is this because it rubs against the G-spot? I can never achieve an orgasm while have sex with him unless im rubbing myself. Let me know what you think.
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You sound pretty normal!!
The majority of women cannot orgasm without clitoral stimulation. You might try different positions, woman on top is great for a lot of women to have that stimulation. PLUS I am sure your partner is not going to mind you adding to your pleasure by stimulating your clit with fingers or a vibe.
I know my dh finds it a huge turn on when I touch myself during sex.
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The "g" spot is inside the vagina, on the front wall, behind the clitoris. Many people like anal stimulation, and you've probably just "trained" yourself to respond to it. Orgasms are as much mental as physical....no matter how you get them.
That's why so many women don't have them, even though they're getting all kinds of stimulation....because they don't know how to let their mind "go there".
Clitoral stimulation is how most women have their orgasms. 90% of women do not have orgasms from intercourse alone.....because there is virtually no feeling inside the vagina. That's what foreplay is all about....lots of clitoral stimulation. Sometimes, if you have a clitoral orgasm during foreplay, you'll have vaginal ones too, but that's because you've got your "motor" started during foreplay. As far as "normal" is concerned, whatever works for you is normal for you. It may not be for other women, but we're all different, and we shouldn't "compare". If it works for you, then do it and enjoy it.
To find out more about the "g" spot.......check out www.the-clitoris.com
PS: You may be thinking about the male "g" spot, which is actually the prostate gland, and many men respond to stimulation of the prostate with a "stronger" climax and ejaculation. That's just inside the anus, and it can also be "massaged" or stimulated by rubbing the perineum, between the testicles and the anus.
Edited 6/21/2007 9:37 am ET by sakura2006
Welcome to the board simplyloved.
Most women need clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Since your anus is full of nerve endings, it makes sense that you are also able to orgasm that way.
Your g-spot is inside your vagina, on the the front wall. Anal stimulation will not stimulate your g-spot. The female g-spot is often compared to the male prostate. The male prostate is accessible anally.
What you're describing sounds completely normal, I wouldn't worry that something is wrong if I were you.
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