Orgasms

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Orgasms
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Wed, 04-27-2005 - 3:24pm
when my boyfriend goes down on me .. everytime he does, i orgasm ( probably since theres full clitoral contact with something hence tongue ) but when we have sex i dont fully orgasm. i like having sex but its not as fully arousing as him going down on me. any tips on what he can do so we can both climax instead of just him. thanx :)
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 3:57pm
Either you or he reach down and

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:01pm
Can you manually bring yourself to orgasm through masturbation? If so, then show your BF how you touch your clitoris and ask him to do that during intercourse or use a position that allows you to rub it against the base of his erection or pubic bone or that allows you to touch yourself. Most women require direct clitoral stimulation to orgasm though.
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Registered: 11-26-2004
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 4:06pm
Learn to listen to your body. It will "scream" commands at you...believe me. ;-) Once you do that, just go with the flow and see what works and what doesn't. Everyone is different so you owe it to yourself to educate yourself....and to study hard. ;-)
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 04-27-2005 - 5:11pm

If you're looking for ideas that'll help you both orgasm during intercourse, then perhaps you could look into using positions that activate your g-spot or "automatically" involve your clitoris more.

Here's some shared lessons that have helped quite a few couples with the same issue:

5 Pleasure-Maxing Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_547497,00.html

10 Hot New Sex Positions
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,166928_633458,00.html

It may be worth purchasing actual Kama Sutra material to help you as well. Mrs. Para & I bought a beginner's video and learned quite a bit from that alone. Hope this helps.

 

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