Orgasms and the lack of - HELP!

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Registered: 05-16-2008
Orgasms and the lack of - HELP!
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Sun, 05-18-2008 - 5:24pm

okay so I've never had an orgasm during sex.

Tabitha B Manning
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 1:37am

First of all, it's ALL sex.....and what you're talking about is intercourse.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 10:41am

Welcome to the board, Tabitha.

I do find that some orgasms feel different than others. I have clitoral orgasms, which are very intense and usually require a bit of a rest afterwards. I also have g-spot orgasms and vaginal orgasms during intercourse. The g-spot orgasms, for me, are the ones that can just keep on going. Usually, each one feeling a little bit more intense than the one prior, but they often roll together. I usually only have vaginal orgasms when I'm highly aroused, and they are very intense, often the final climax of the event for me.

With either the g-spot or the vaginal orgasm, adding clitoral stimulation adds a whole new type of feel. Many women do require clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm, so it's a good idea to add that to intercourse. Either of you can use your fingers on your clitoris, or you could try a small vibrator.

Here are a couple of articles you might find helpful:

Everything You Want to Know about Orgasms
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sexorgasm/0,,traceycox_c4qgbvt5,00.html

Four Positions for a Better Orgasm
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextechnique/0,,pb47,00.html?nlcid=ls|12-13-2007|

"Why are my orgasms more intense during masturbation?"
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638353_634298,00.html