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| Mon, 05-15-2006 - 9:24pm |
Just wondering if more experienced people out there could share their experiences. My boyfriend and I have been together for five months. We are a long distance couple so we probably have sex on average ten times a month (we'll have maybe two week-long visits per month). Before him, I was pretty inexperienced sexually so I'm still learning with him. However, we've established a routine and it pretty much goes like this: start out with me on top (sometimes I start by doing oral on him), we switch to missionary, he goes down on me, he gets back on top and finishes. We only do it in bed. It's not that I'm averse to trying new things, but I guess I feel pretty settled in our routine and so far so good. He asked me if I'd ever done it anywhere other than a bed, but it didn't lead to him suggesting we try somewhere else. I'm not bored, but I do like the idea of at least sharing new experiences together and I think he would be excited by this.
So my questions are: what was the first new position you tried after missionary and woman-on-top, and when you and your partner first took sex out of the bed, where did you do it?(assuming you started in bed? : ) )
I'll take notes for future reference.
Thanks.
SBC

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His favorite is the couch (makes you think next time you visit friend's - don't it?), his next favorite is his multiple offices (desk, bathroom, couch, chair). All of these locations add excitement to already intense feelings, however the bathroom was the most uncomfortable (I was so sure we could make good use of that support bar, but it didn't work well). We've also done park bench, the car, the truck, then there was that water fountain~~~? However, outside sex is not easy to be done unseen and if you get caught by the wrong people, you could find yourself in jail. Plus, all those locations meant limited touching and no true naked bodies. However, the excitement factor is great.
Now a routine is an easy thing to fix, even if you don't take it out of the bedroom. You can just rub each other without any sex touch at all. You can kiss, carress or use your hair to massage him and in the midst of playing, you can stop all touching and start up a conversation and see how long he'll talk until he throws you over and pounds ya. You can do "all him" or "all her" sessions (where he can't touch you while you work every inch of his body - sometimes it means his hands need to be restrained), then vise-aversa. Buy a forum style book and read stories, however have reading rules: can't touch during this story; only touch self during this one; only oral during this one, etc.
From WOT, we can move into two other postions - both basically missionary and from missionary he moves onto the bed and we continue on our sides where I'll move until we form a T (one of my favorite positions). The entire world is open canvas when two bodies connect together, so do enjoy every minute of it.
PS: some people are just plain "bed" people; XH would only have sex in bed - regardless of where we started, the couch, the car, the kitchen, we always had to go to the bedroom. In 17 years, I never tired of it, but I so dreamed of being taken at the sink!
Use your imagination.
Go camping...in a tent ;) Or try a hot tubb (jets and hot water = steamy time!).
If you are limited to a household...why not sit on the kitchen counter while he stands infront of you (legs wrapped around him), or the couch, the floor, the laundry room, etc.
As for positions, mix it up! Try from behind (doggie style, or standing sex, etc). If you want a lot of ideas and detailed positions (how to), try the Cosmopolitan page of Kama Sutra Sex Positions : http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/spow/
:) G'luck
Mimmi
We're mostly "bed" types too, but lets see... The floor next to the bed, the edge of the bed is good too - you on it, him standing.
The couch is popular. Now that I think of it, we had sex there before we had sex in the bedroom. It has big rolled arm style arms. That can be interesting if she straddles that and you basically do it doggiestyle. Getting cum out of the uphostery is another story entirely.
The mattress in front of the fireplace :-) The kitchen table had it's moment of glory. Her leaning over the sink when she was doing dishes was another kitchen story. The garage (only when it was summer and warm. The back lawn at night under the stars in summer.
Probably the strangest once was many years ago in a real treehouse in the grounds of my g/f's old primary school on a weekend afternoon when the school was closed. Spur of the moment thing and a long skirt helped achieve the objective.
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When DW and I bought our house years ago, we made an effort to "christen" each and every room in the house by having sex in it...only then could we truely call that house "our home."
So we did it in every room (all 3 bedrooms, living room, kitchen, both bathrooms, dining room, and laundry room), every closet that we could fit into, in the garage and on the back deck (we skipped the front porch for obvious reasons!). We even did it in the hallways, stairwell, and foyer as well just for good measure.
Finding positions that worked in some of those areas was difficult at times, but a lot of fun! Most of the "christening" occured during one weekend before we had even moved a lot of things in, while we were painting and getting things ready...bare floors with a minimum of furniture made for some interesting sex in our new house!
Thanks for the responses. I will see my boyfriend in about a week and I look forward to bringing more spontaneity into our sex life. A couple of times he started undressing me when we were on the living room couch but either I said let's go to the bedroom or I put a stop to it. Next time, I think I'll just let things continue!
Thanks again!
On a 'getaway weekend' from the kids one summer, DW and I teased each other in the car all the way to the beachfront hotel. We stepped into the hotel room, our arms went around each other, she got backed against the wall, I bunched up her skirt, lifted one of her legs to get the angle right and slipped right in, holding her arms up and against the wall. We untangled after a couple of minutes long enough to get the whirlpool tub full, then resumed with her on top and the water bubbling, then finished on the bed with her ankles on my shoulders.
It's *nice* to have some time to yourselves to cut loose...
>>A couple of times he started undressing me when we were on the living room couch
You could do a number like Michael Douglas in Basic Instinct; bend over the couch, flip up your skirt and let him have you right there. Very, very hot...
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